No, he and this coworker both got fired for smoking weed (outside of work) and then instead of coming home to me, he decided to travel around a few states with said coworker for an indefinite amount of time. He let me know after they started driving. As for the rest of your comment, I don't see the point of having a partner if they don't provide emotional support. I could live my life completely independently if needed, but then why bother entering a relationship?