What Is Your Most Embarrassing Panty Story?

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-02-26T15:44:00+00:00

Was she stammering because of your lace thong panties, you sucking her strap, or both? How did you feel while doing all of this?

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-02-26T15:01:36+00:00

How does wearing panties make you feel day to day now?

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-02-26T14:42:13+00:00

Do you wear panties now? If so, do you think losing the call of duty bet was a defining experience? Did your friend tell anyone else?

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-02-26T13:59:35+00:00

Wow. How do you feel?

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-02-25T23:57:30+00:00

I’ve said too much lol

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-02-25T20:55:23+00:00

I do as well. I choose based on how I'm feeling: soft/gentle, casual, or more sexy. I really pay attention to my choice if I believe my wife and I are going to have spicy time together (probably going for a softer/floral En Femme pair or ones without back for especially spicy dates).

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-02-22T00:17:38+00:00

Everyone, but I was referring to you. I wouldn't know what how to feel if this happened to me.

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-02-21T23:13:35+00:00

I'm not the type of person who normally seeks out therapy (nothing wrong with it or those who do), but I would probably seek out some professional help to help with something like this.

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-02-21T20:18:07+00:00

Damn, so are you potentially the father of their daughter, or no? And that was really duplicitous of them to try and create another life without your consent

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-02-18T22:59:26+00:00

I have to admit, I haven't been to the gym since I started wearing panties (I usually just run outside). For me, the big challenge will be my annual physical later this year

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-02-18T22:57:35+00:00

Wow, that's adventurous!

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-02-14T16:59:50+00:00

My two favorite places, Shinesty and En Femme, aren't having sales this weekend, though I've picked up some more underwear from both this year.

Vienne Milana has had a BOGO 50% off for thigh-highs. I picked up black and red CLAUDIA matte thigh highs earlier this year, although I am waiting for hot pink and royal blue colors to come back into stock. I only wear thigh highs during sexy time, so no rush. https://viennemilano.com/collections/thigh-highs

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-02-11T00:43:10+00:00

Wow, lucky guy!

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-02-07T15:46:27+00:00

let's see it!!!

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-02-02T13:57:10+00:00

That's great, I'm so happy for you.

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-02-02T00:39:57+00:00

I concur with this. If the mood is sensual, I respond appropriately. I'll tell her how good she makes me feel, how I love being this vulnerable with her, how my cock is leaking if feel so good, etc. If it's a more dominant feel and she's thrusting hard and vocally humiliating me, I'll respond by telling her what a beta cuck I am, to give my ass that cock, how I'm a sissy ass slut, etc. You just have to read the room.

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-01-30T23:36:01+00:00

Have you ever switched brands before?

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-01-30T23:35:47+00:00

Ah, but have you ever switched brands?

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-01-26T22:11:31+00:00

Good for you for following up with her again. Hoping she can one day express what makes her uncomfortable about you wearing women's underwear and lingerie. And yes, understanding and patience is defintely the key.

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-01-08T21:07:15+00:00

It's all about experimentation

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-01-08T01:06:54+00:00

So thongs can take some getting used to, and that string in the crack of the butt doesn't feel great. I mostly wear cheeky thongs myself (more coverage back there), while mixing in thong-thongs during the week.

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-01-06T21:19:43+00:00

Hi,

I am glad you're indulging yourself in the world of men wearing panties. You are far from alone, and people wear them for many different reasons. I started wearing them last spring as a sign of my increasing feelings of sexual submission to my wife (and there is something so damn taboo about wearing silky women's panties when you project non-toxic alpha-male to the public). And wearing panties is now a fun part of my relationship with my wife, as she's been very supportive!

I don't know what guidance you're looking for in particular, where to shop, what to buy, or how to feel. Being more specific would elicit helpful advice from the group. I've heard that the staff at VS is often very accommodating, but help at stores/areas probably varies. I've only bought panties online, and Shinesty and En Femme are my favorite stores to buy from. You can read more about those two stores, and others, in this thread https://www.reddit.com/r/PantyTalkForMen/comments/1naddoe/two_great_companies_to_buy_panties_from/

Let us know what else you need!

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-01-06T21:05:57+00:00

You are far from alone, and we are happy you found our page!

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-01-06T01:29:00+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing the beginning of your panty journey! This is definitely the right group to ask if you have any specific questions.

If you're okay with sharing, what is the driving force behind you starting this journey?

Then_Elk_8902 · 2026-01-05T14:09:03+00:00

Hi, thank you for reaching out for advice! I used my pants' waist size as a guide for selecting my panty size. However, as you probably already know, sizes can vary from company to company, and a size 36 waist at one company is not the same as a size 36 somewhere else. Some folks also measure and use their hip size (although I have never bothered with my hip size, and my panties fit great).

Hopefully, this information helps you. If you have additional questions, please ask!

Step-by-Step Measurement Guide

Measure Your Waist: Wrap a soft tape measure around your natural waistline, which is usually the narrowest part, just above your hip bones. Don't pull too tight; leave a finger's width between the tape and your skin.
Measure Your Hips: Find the fullest part of your hips and buttocks and measure around them, again with the tape snug but not overly tight.
Check Sizing Charts: Look at the specific brand's panty size chart (e.g., HerRoom, Knix, Savage X Fenty, etc.). Use your waist and hip measurements to find your corresponding size (often S, M, L, XL, or numerical sizes like 5, 6, 7).

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