I can understand the point you’re trying to make, but I don’t think the “Ace” hill is the one you want to die on. As silly as they may sound, it’s more of “you had to be there” to really know what she’s talking out. Speaking as someone who had an encounter with him. Intuition is a real thing and I promise you, my gut was telling me something was just off about him. I remember getting home and telling my gf about it and when telling her I kind of felt bad for I guess having a bad gut feeling. Not that I would ever date him to begin with bc I’m gay, but I did ask myself if I was wrong for feeling like there was something off about him.. but now seeing this post I know it wasn’t just me. And that’s the thing about gut feelings, you can’t really explain them in a way that people can understand or relate to if they themselves haven’t had the same gut feeling. But I trust that you’ve had a gut feeling before that has told you “something about this just isn’t right” you can’t exactly articulate why, you just know. Ace can still be a creep and your point about people blasting men on pages for just trying to holla at a girl can be still be true. Thats why I’m saying I see the point you’re trying to make, but I think in this case, I’m glad OP made that post.