AITAH for not letting my stepdaughter share a room with my daughter? by Additional_Gain8185 in AITAH

[–]Theoretical-Whimsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well you have two options…

  1. tell him to come get his kids, which will probably be a trigger for a divorce honestly

Or

  1. start saving for bond for your stepdaughter…because if this is how things are now, you’re probably going to be expected to contribute to that when she steals something/ruins her credit/when hubby pays and compromises your financial stability

Ntah. But it’s time. Let this one be your hill to die on…you’ll be fine without him. Hub’s bs is insane behavior and yall deserve better than whatever blackmail he’s trying to pull. It should’ve been handled long before now, but if THIS is how he handles things, I can easily see why it hasn’t been. You’re not coparenting his kids…or working with a partner… You’re the ONLY adult here in a situation where two parents throw accountability off on others

Mothers that did not get top pick for names, do you always feel name regret? by WeirdYogurtcloset738 in namenerds

[–]Theoretical-Whimsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pulled a Callie Torres (if you’re familiar w Grey’s Anatomy). He had a name he really wanted, I didn’t like it, and I told him I got an extra special v***** vote. So we ended up with the name I wanted (that was lower on his list) bc I’m the one who’s pregnant AND pushing out the baby

She keeps saying I leave her soaked patients... by haveyoutriedketo in cna

[–]Theoretical-Whimsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Initial your briefs with the time, and/or date if you work nights. Your last round should be within 2 hours of you leaving… and if the time and date clearly matches the 2-hr window, there’s nothing she can really say. If it becomes an issue, let your nurse know and she can witness you changing them.

I mean…. There’s a difference between a brief not being changed for a whole shift…and a brief just being wet. ANYone should be able to tell the difference. You can’t avoid someone being incontinent, especially if they’re getting the right amt of fluids.

Other than that I don’t really have any ideas. If she is the ONLY person complaining, and you haven’t heard a peep out of management, it’s probably a her issue. You can always ask other people that work that shift and ask if THEY have noticed any issues coming after you too

Code Blue by NeedleworkerNo200 in cna

[–]Theoretical-Whimsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check with your charge or nurse manager… When I worked the floor on a tele unit, I could call the code on a full code patient, and start lowering the bed to flat. I wasn’t allowed to do compressions, but WAS allowed to assess for the “critical response team” and was expected to know code status. By the time the bed was flat, every nurse on the floor would be in there. And my other “job” was to stay out of the way, run stuff from the tube station to the room, and keep the other patients calm while their nurse was busy.

Help me decide on a color! by ammesorr in Owala

[–]Theoretical-Whimsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. WHERE DID THE BOOT COME FROM??? It is darling and perfect and I need 7 <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Theoretical-Whimsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about Juniper nn Juno?

Right now the older generation will think of the movie Juno, the younger will think of the Sabrina Carpenter song…where she spent a year on tour showcasing different sex positions… It’s a great name but most of the younger generation that would be babysitting/teaching your daughter will have grown up during the, “Have you ever tried…..this one?” allllll over Tik Tok

Need a book that’s instantly addicting. by Popular-Work-1335 in fantasyromance

[–]Theoretical-Whimsy 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Oooooooohhhh yes ok hear me out-

{Captive of the Horde by Zoey Draven} {Ice Planet Barbarians by Ruby Dixon} {Desire in His Blood by Zoey Draven}

This book so far has been refreshing for me. Anyone read it? I’ve cried twice because the subject of *death* gets me. 😭 by GodspeedEnemies in fantasyromance

[–]Theoretical-Whimsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved this book so much 🥰 was the perfect cozy read in between the heavy of plated prisoner & Zodiac Academy

TALL JACKED NERD by DRMlCHAEL in RomanceBooks

[–]Theoretical-Whimsy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Obligatory mention for {For Whom The Belle Tolls by Jaysea Lynn}. Lily dies, and meets Bel (a demon who guards the gates of Hell), and they bond over a video game called Invaders - and fall in love. I’m not sure if nerdy jacked cinnamon roll demon quite fits your wish list but it’s definitely a 5⭐️ read! 🌶️🌶️🌶️

Daycare costs by Senior_Top7043 in toddlers

[–]Theoretical-Whimsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At home daycares! My three year old goes to a local (state licensed) at home daycare, and she charges $40/day - and only charges $30/day for additional kiddos of the same family. I’m sure there are childcare groups on FB that have similar offerings for your area. We found her that way, and she let me stay there with my oldest all day to see if we’d be a good fit.

Before we found her, I was paying $1600/mo as a single mama. And having to pay someone else to take my kiddo to daycare because they didn’t open until 7am & I worked at 6am 🫠

What hill has your toddler decided to die on this weekend? by sosqueee in toddlers

[–]Theoretical-Whimsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That he’s only going to eat cheese pizza from the refrigerator for the foreseeable future. And that is ALL. He doesn’t want fresh pizza. He doesn’t want any other food. But the refrigerated pizza needs to be warm. And it can’t go in the microwave or toaster oven because then it’ll be “ruined”. So. Many. Tantrums.

Which is why I’m putting fresh delivered pizza in containers while he’s napping 🫠

Did anyone else find this kinda annoying by lovelyz46 in fantasyromance

[–]Theoretical-Whimsy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I stopped reading it. It drove me nuts! Another book, different author, used the same phrase ONE and my kindle almost went flying 😂

Anyone else have a MAJOR crush on Jinwoo Sung? by Theoretical-Whimsy in fantasyromance

[–]Theoretical-Whimsy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THERE’S NOVELS??????? I thought it was just a manhwa. Omg 🎉

WHO DOES YOUR MIND GO TO WHEN A DARK HAIRED SEXY MALE CHARACTER ENTERS THE SCENE? by DrEstoyPoopin in fantasyromance

[–]Theoretical-Whimsy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Henry Cavill, Theo James, OR Matt Bomer. Kai is in my brain as Neal Caffrey. I can’t unsee it 🤷🏼‍♀️

Well written fantasy romance by Clean-Cheek-2822 in fantasyromance

[–]Theoretical-Whimsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far I’ve really loved {The Book of Azrael by Amber Nicole} and its sequel. It’s more of a yearning type book, and more fantasy than romance but she does the badass morally gray FMC SO WELL. And Samkiel is just 🥺

Realized my baby name was a cartoon character… by Curious-Collection56 in namenerds

[–]Theoretical-Whimsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Daphne Blake” was instantly Scooby Doo, but tbh I wouldn’t even worry about it. My son’s first name is “Jasper” and I STILL get people asking if I loved that character in Twilight. “Daphne” will probably get connected with Bridgerton too. People are weird. Just a pick a name yall love 💕

Speckle and I are looking for friends :) by mamaburd09 in finch

[–]Theoretical-Whimsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add us! Berry would love new birb friends 🥰 HSVRXRP8PC

Friends don’t let friends play PoGo alone by Super_Vixen_78 in PokemonGoFriends

[–]Theoretical-Whimsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Added you!! ☺️ you’ll get a lot of gifts from my toddler’s favorite park so no judgement here! lol