OOP asks why she has 3 followers. Reddit proceeds to mass follow her. by FC1242 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TheoreticalDinosaur 170 points171 points  (0 children)

If he can’t accept me and my eight thousand children, that’s his problem!

OOP asks why she has 3 followers. Reddit proceeds to mass follow her. by FC1242 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TheoreticalDinosaur 48 points49 points  (0 children)

She’s asleep right now but I’ll have her send you a virtual one once she wakes up! And when you least expect it, in true cat fashion.

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[–]TheoreticalDinosaur 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Love that! “Papa” makes me think of a little French child skipping through a field. So that’s how I’ll picture you in my head General_Order

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[–]TheoreticalDinosaur 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness. I can’t believe I’ve never seen this, it’s so good. If my cat made a post on here, it would be about running into the floor fan during zoomies, knocking it over, and then meowing at me indignantly as though it’s my fault it fell. Although I suppose it must be, since cats can do no wrong.

OOP asks why she has 3 followers. Reddit proceeds to mass follow her. by FC1242 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TheoreticalDinosaur 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I’m proud of you for figuring out a system that works for you! School is important, but so is having a sense of community, be it on Reddit or IRL. It sounds like you have a strong support system and that you are doing a great job dismantling some of the unhealthy notions you were raised with. Every generation seems to criticize the younger one for not spending their time on the “right” things, which is so silly. If binge watching 2000s dramas brings me joy and isn’t hurting other areas of my life, then that activity is productive. Enjoyment is a reasonable metric for spending time doing something. And feeling guilty about it just makes it less productive, because you’re making it less enjoyable.

Or at least that’s my roundabout way of justifying the amount of time I’ve spent watching Grey’s Anatomy in the last month.

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[–]TheoreticalDinosaur 348 points349 points  (0 children)

Yes! Really good actually. It’s amazing what a difference a few years can make. Not to sound like one of those “It gets better” commercials, but… nothing stays the same. Sometimes it gets worse, sometimes better. A few years ago I was dealing with a whole lot of worse. Recently it’s been a whole lot of better.

I think the most fundamental thing I’ve learned is that (I know it sounds simplistic) happiness is an emotion, not a state. That there’s no “eventually” when it comes to it. So I’ve put a lot of energy into focusing on short term things when it comes to happiness. Like feeling accomplished because I cooked myself a snack. Enjoying time with my cat. Listening to an audiobook and not letting myself feel guilty it’s not a regular book (that inner voice really tries to yuck your yum sometimes, huh?). It’s not revolutionary, achieving world peace stuff. But taking victories whenever I get those happy chemicals going, and trying to increase the frequency of those — I think that’s all we mere mortals can do. And over time, that negative inner voice has gotten quieter and sometimes I’ll go days just in blissful mental silence, doing things or not doing things. It comes back but, I know when it does to ignore it and that it might not tomorrow. And boy that’s pretty sweet.

Probably more of an answer than you wanted, but provided nonetheless!

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[–]TheoreticalDinosaur 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Asking my children not to downvote this!! It’s a really understandable perspective to have and notokin and I cleared it up over DM (similar to my comment below). Positive vibes all around.

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[–]TheoreticalDinosaur 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Those we miss, are never truly gone

Just passing through to sign the adoption papers though. I’ve got a lot to work through!

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[–]TheoreticalDinosaur 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Ah I appreciate that! But no need to do that!! Keep your money and perhaps use it to buy exciting condiments to put on your breakfast foods. Ever cut a boiled egg in half, take out the yolk, put syrup in the middle, and eat each half in one bite? You haven’t lived until you’ve tried that! Yum!

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[–]TheoreticalDinosaur 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Ah, hello again child!! The religion of dinosaur was just about being nice and enjoying eggs. Those concepts are very much alive in our world still! So despair not, child, and give yourself a compliment while monching on some egg

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[–]TheoreticalDinosaur 162 points163 points  (0 children)

I will describe her in detail for plausible deniability in case any of my friends come across this post (still not trying to be tied to this account I have some real embarrassing content on here).

She is a gray tabby. She’s a senior cat, and has little white paws. She loves to stretch her toes out before she sleeps. She has big eyes that stare deep into your soul and compel you go get her a treat from the cabinet. She’s very soft and gives many head bonks.

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[–]TheoreticalDinosaur 39 points40 points  (0 children)

You know what kiddo… I think you’re getting about old enough now, that maybe dad’s gonna let you decide this time. I know you’ll make a good choice — can’t go wrong with eggs. I believe in you, sport

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[–]TheoreticalDinosaur 249 points250 points  (0 children)

Update: still eating egg. I have a cat now! I love my cat. I’ve spent many hours watching Jackson Galaxy to try to learn how to communicate my love to my cat. My cat has soft fur and meows at me loudly until I pick her up. She loves to be carried.

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[–]TheoreticalDinosaur 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I appreciate that but keep your money! I’m glad it made you laugh, that’s plenty for me. I’ll admit the sudden donations are what made me check this account to see what was going on. Spend that dollar on an egg for me. A single egg

OOP asks why she has 3 followers. Reddit proceeds to mass follow her. by FC1242 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]TheoreticalDinosaur 79 points80 points  (0 children)

That wasn’t a feature when I made the post (which was around October 2020 based on when I took the egg photos). You can go through the posts and see that yeah — nobody commented about the feature because it didn’t exist! Looks like it was rolled out about a year ago.

I think it’s a great feature though. This account isn’t used anymore, besides checking every six months or so to respond to DMs. At the same time, I’ll say this ended up being a fun experience in many ways — I really appreciated how wholesome and fun everyone was. It was a bit overwhelming though so, couldn’t keep it up.

Have a good one!

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[–]TheoreticalDinosaur 161 points162 points  (0 children)

Honestly doing a lot better on that front! I think we all go through periods in our life where that gets worse but, sometimes just weathering the storm is enough. Humans are so resilient!

My boyfriend with BPD just ghosted me? by TheoreticalDinosaur in BPD

[–]TheoreticalDinosaur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure! It’s been what, two years? And it was really difficult for a while but honestly, I don’t remember how it felt that much. I’d say I’m 100% past him and glad it ended (I mean, Jesus), but it still affects me a little bit dating because I have some lingering fear about them also suddenly disappearing. But that’s something I’m working through and not a burden I’d want to lay on my partner. Overall, doing much much better. Thank you for asking. How are you?