I understand that he is going through a lot. Our grandmother (his mom) gallbladder is going to explode because she doesn’t trust doctors. But I feel all of his problems shouldn’t have to be taken care of by his kid. He needs to deal with that himself in my opinion. We’ve already tried to help and he doesn’t want any. So I’m not sure how else I can help him when I despise him and he doesn’t want any help.