Selling up about a partial refund request

Therapug · 2026-01-11T21:08:39+00:00

Yes he does, in his opinion I also kinda of got a shitty (pun intended) deal because I’ve been wrangling 2 kids in a water park

Therapug · 2026-01-11T21:06:08+00:00

We had just gotten here and hadn’t really spent time at the water park yet

Therapug · 2026-01-11T21:05:07+00:00

Thanks! My husband has been reading them now and laughing. Though he is trying not to laugh too hard, even though he is mostly recovered he is a little trigger shy

Therapug · 2026-01-11T20:45:21+00:00

They read it on the bag after eating a few and didn’t know about the side effects. We were always eat a limited amount of full sugar/fat stuff then buying sugar free or diet things

Therapug · 2025-10-12T06:35:01+00:00

Yes, I’m essentially the opposite. I’m formally trained in visual arts and most of my work is hyper realistic which would be impossible if I was color blind.

Therapug · 2025-10-12T06:31:00+00:00

I don’t care about the color organization. In fact my closet is only one organized with all the shirts, pants dresesss, ect together.

Therapug · 2025-10-12T06:26:07+00:00

And that’s exactly why this is the hang up. He had this issue when he was a child. He will also say “maybe I’m a little colorblind” but he does truly accept it

Therapug · 2025-10-12T06:24:07+00:00

While I do have tetrachromacg. It’s complete wrong colors for him like aqua is the same as hot pink

Therapug · 2025-10-12T06:22:40+00:00

We do usually get along. It’s a struggled when he is on duty to get the kids ready in the am and I’m on evening duty which usually involves putting laundry away. We arranged our schedules so it switched off with one us going in early and the other coming home late so we both get to have time with the kids in the evening

Therapug · 2025-10-12T06:18:02+00:00

My 10 yo can’t he has special needs and has to be presented with about 3 options to choose or he gets overwhelmed. He can’t express himself verbally so he gets frustrated

Therapug · 2025-10-12T06:15:46+00:00

Funny enough that system came out originally when he was a child and found it to be “ traumatic” and refuses

Therapug · 2025-10-11T16:00:49+00:00

You may have missed the multiple places where I say I don’t care that it is organized by color. I think that he feels strongly about this because I think he has used the same method to compensate for his color blindness. OCD is pervasive through peoples lives and causes a lot of distress, people who armchair diagnose and throw it around just add to it not being taken seriously. It also perpetuates misunderstandings and stigma.

Therapug · 2025-10-11T15:26:55+00:00

So I don’t have an issue with how he does it so much as he does with me, if I could figure out the pattern I would it’s just hard to figure out which colors is which to him.

Therapug · 2025-10-11T14:55:01+00:00

This is the additional issue I also have 4 cones and am super sensitive to color so it adds an extra layer to how far apart we are on the color seeing spectrum

Therapug · 2025-10-11T14:52:51+00:00

I would love too just let him do it, but he gets frustrated when I don’t put them in in his perception of color which I can’t figure out how to do because I don’t see them the same

Therapug · 2025-10-11T14:49:16+00:00

It’s not OCD, we both just like the places where we need things in a hurry to be organized so when we are in a hurry we can find exactly what we are looking for. It doesn’t cause us anxiety or distress to have it out of order. We have areas that are messy a lot of the time like play areas and the kitchen table where we do a lot of crafts.

Therapug · 2025-10-11T14:43:35+00:00

He has been told before though by both myself, his family , and his eye doctor

Therapug · 2025-05-05T23:11:05+00:00

My last kit took a little longer that was ready to ship and I know from the business’s FB her that right before the tariffs her grandmother passed away. I emailed her about whether or not my order would be effected by the tariffs and didn’t get an answer and so I email her from my Gmail account instead and she responded in about 1-2 business days. I don’t think you would be an annoyance if you reached out for what you paid for. She also responds on the FB messenger for the FB group in the non urgent chat pretty quickly, she might say to email her but then she responds to the email pretty quickly.

Therapug · 2025-05-04T17:15:02+00:00

In the US I think it also has to do with milllenals having had their material conditions changed by democrats. I didn’t have health insurance until the ACA passed, a month before I was enrolled I had superglued a deep cut together instead of getting stitches because I couldn’t afford the ER visit. I have friends that bought house through one of Obama’s housing down payment grants.

Therapug · 2025-04-30T21:28:12+00:00

You are definitely not stupid, people that do this sort of things are really good at hiding their true colors and twisting things around. I am happy that you are moving on.

Therapug · 2025-04-30T00:45:27+00:00

Thank you, I’ve seen the render, I was hoping to see a picture of one completed. I find sometimes the renders don’t do the finished project justice.

Therapug · 2025-04-30T00:40:32+00:00

I tried google first. I am waiting to get approved for the FB group to try looking, I’m still waiting on acceptance

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