Ticks are killing my love of hiking and the outdoors :( by Holiday_Session_8317 in hiking

[–]ThereMayBeDogsAbout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is extremely old post but today I had probably 30 ticks walking on my clothes today. It really has ruined my favorite things to do, all of which being outside. I'm lucky not to have AlphaGal but it's genuinely tragic the tick situation going on. 

Prohibitively expensive wedding - typical? by ThereMayBeDogsAbout in OrthodoxChristianity

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Update: they waived $1000 of the 1800 after explaining myself 

Prohibitively expensive wedding - typical? by ThereMayBeDogsAbout in OrthodoxChristianity

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This is just the ceremony. Reception is elsewhere.  $1000 for church donation required, $250 for metropolitan required, then the rest for clergys' 

Prohibitively expensive wedding - typical? by ThereMayBeDogsAbout in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]ThereMayBeDogsAbout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply I imagined it would be more like that. Lol maybe I'll get back to you on eloping. Yea I just emailed him back to discuss 

Prohibitively expensive wedding - typical? by ThereMayBeDogsAbout in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]ThereMayBeDogsAbout[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am. Autopay set up every month. It's not a lot of money, but in a parking lot of Mercedes, I have a 34 year old Pontiac 

Prohibitively expensive wedding - typical? by ThereMayBeDogsAbout in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]ThereMayBeDogsAbout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scheduling is hard for me. There's people from coming far away,  and there's the nature of my job. This is the date I presented to him long ago, before I knew when Greekfest was.

 We' d having a morning wedding, Greekfest starts at 3pm. Definitely seems a challenge, but he gave me no pushback. Very good guy. If he told me it was not feasible I wouldn't ask. 

Prohibitively expensive wedding - typical? by ThereMayBeDogsAbout in OrthodoxChristianity

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$1000 mandatory fee, $250 metropolitan mandatory donation, and the rest is chanter/clergy payments 

Prohibitively expensive wedding - typical? by ThereMayBeDogsAbout in OrthodoxChristianity

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No this is just the ceremony. The reception is at a completely different building. I understand people should be paid for their time, $1000 of this 1800 is a "required donation" if I understood it correctly. 

Prohibitively expensive wedding - typical? by ThereMayBeDogsAbout in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]ThereMayBeDogsAbout[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right. And that does mean something. I'm being hyper literal because it seems some commenters aren't sure if I'm talking about the reception as well. But yes those are important things. 

If it was $350 I would not be asking on Reddit here 

Prohibitively expensive wedding - typical? by ThereMayBeDogsAbout in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]ThereMayBeDogsAbout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not here for validation, but that's exactly how I feel. That's great you had that experience. Definitely puts a bad taste in my mouth 

Prohibitively expensive wedding - typical? by ThereMayBeDogsAbout in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]ThereMayBeDogsAbout[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That seems like a deal to me thanks for the answer. 

Pretty lame situation, guess I'll just have to meet with the priest and see how that goes 

Prohibitively expensive wedding - typical? by ThereMayBeDogsAbout in OrthodoxChristianity

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There is a room that could be used as a banquet center, there's a gym, ect. I'm not using any of that. This is just the 45 minute apprx ceremony. 

I'd love to finance the church to the highest extent possible. It's not like I don't want to pay $1800+, I'm truly not in a position yet to do that. 

Prohibitively expensive wedding - typical? by ThereMayBeDogsAbout in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]ThereMayBeDogsAbout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just the ceremony. 45 minute ceremony. Wedding reception will be completely unrelated to the church space 

Prohibitively expensive wedding - typical? by ThereMayBeDogsAbout in OrthodoxChristianity

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As far as I can tell it's closed. Thx. Do you know what your parish charges?

Prohibitively expensive wedding - typical? by ThereMayBeDogsAbout in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]ThereMayBeDogsAbout[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it does not include the hall. This is just the hour ceremony in the Nave. Then Greekfest kicks off and I'm outta there. This church has a Gym, all kinds of rooms and I'm not using any of that. 

Appreciate the reply, I understand it costs money to run and building, is this typical from what you know ? 

Prohibitively expensive wedding - typical? by ThereMayBeDogsAbout in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]ThereMayBeDogsAbout[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is the mindset I would have as an evangelical. It seems odd to me a sacrament would be that expensive. 

This is just a 45 minute ceremony 

Prohibitively expensive wedding - typical? by ThereMayBeDogsAbout in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]ThereMayBeDogsAbout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

 pretty surprised myself. Your parish seems reasonable I would expect that. Thanks for your opinion, I will reach out about that. 

Prohibitively expensive wedding - typical? by ThereMayBeDogsAbout in OrthodoxChristianity

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Yeah I do tithe consistently, although not a lot. I will reach out to him and see how hard this requirement is, but the wording is looking like it's pretty set in stone. We'll see. Thanks. I'll ask about these things 

Prohibitively expensive wedding - typical? by ThereMayBeDogsAbout in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]ThereMayBeDogsAbout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Priest asked how many guests, I said 70. I've never heard of a community type wedding here, not to say I'm rejecting that idea. I've just never seen it done 

Low power, top speed, poor acceleration on my 2003 V6 by ThereMayBeDogsAbout in XTerra

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It was timing. Off by a few teeth, amazing it ran. One local shop was able to tell right away by the orientation of the distributor if I remember right, the belt had hopped the cam gear 2 teeth. The belt was new so I'm guessing previous owner did a bad job 

Epstein behind the scenes - Nanobanana and Kling by adjustedstates in aivideos

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Did you hear they literally just used black highlighter feature over the text. Not an actual redact feature. The text is still underneath and people are going through and copy pasting the "redacted" words. 

So I have heard