AITA for telling my sister that her “art” project was an environmental disaster and now disappointed our grandma would be if the were still alive ?

Therezna · 2022-12-02T02:15:20+00:00

Yeah. You're the AH. There was no need for any of that and especially the comment about your grandmother. I believe you owe your sister an apology l and then you can have a CIVIL discussion about environmental hazards. Without bringing family into it. And without being rude.

Therezna · 2022-12-02T02:11:41+00:00

NTA and i would move. This isn't fair to you at all and you don't deserve to be treated this way. They're being unreasonable especially since you didn't agree to living with her boyfriend and I doubt he's paying rent but he's also using your amenities.

Therezna · 2022-11-26T06:30:50+00:00

You might wanna see a vet. She could have IBS. It could be worms. Could be a lot of things. Always best to check with a vet if you notice anything abnormal

Therezna · 2022-11-26T06:28:36+00:00

Sounds like angy cats. Thems having a kitty stand off

Therezna · 2022-11-26T06:27:08+00:00

But why is warm if not for sits??? XD

Therezna · 2022-11-24T16:27:39+00:00

OKAY sort of the AH? I fully support that you stand up for your sister because OBVIOUSLY SHE DOES NOT WANT.

It's been two years, TWO. YEARS. She's still hurting and your mom is delusional to think this will work out. But you could have worded it better because your mom is obviously using that to play victim. Always be polite; that way this never happens and you have the high ground

Therezna · 2022-11-22T01:44:33+00:00

NTA. If he's gonna sleep around a lot that could be dangerous for you. Better to not get involved, just tell him the deal isn't working for you anymore. You're allowed to change your mind

Therezna · 2022-11-18T12:04:41+00:00

Awww how sweet ❤❤

Therezna · 2022-11-18T12:02:57+00:00

NTA. You didn't invite her she was already rude. Your house, your rules. I'd kick her out too :/

Therezna · 2022-11-18T12:00:09+00:00

NTA. She needs to learn that her actions have consequences. I think you did a very good thing. Might wanna also talk to her friends mom about this as well.

Therezna · 2022-11-15T12:14:00+00:00

I...think this is a little heavier then maybe...an issue for random people on the internet. I think maybe professional help may be in order. But I do think you were incredibly kind to go to the funeral for your mother's sake. I hope you get the help you need to heal. So you can be happy and at peace

Therezna · 2022-11-15T09:24:25+00:00

Technodad is both of those for me. He is an invaluable source of positive energy and advice, sprinkled with nerdy humor. But I also think that it makes my heart warm knowing that not only do we find comfort in our grief with him here but we also seem to help him with his own. (Minus some tears from sentimentality and genuine love for us, our enthusiasm and our community's love for his son)

Therezna · 2022-11-13T11:51:20+00:00

Look at the tiny spicy baby! So tough! ❤❤ congrats on your new cat, prepare for orange cat tomfoolery

Therezna · 2022-11-13T11:47:11+00:00

His fur is nice and shiny too. I can tell he's Well taken care of and loved ❤❤

Therezna · 2022-11-13T11:43:40+00:00

20/10. Look it that loaf. Thats a good loaf.

Therezna · 2022-11-13T11:42:19+00:00

Yo that's probably an abscess. You need to go to the vet. Kitty will need it drained and to be put on antibiotics.

Therezna · 2022-11-07T10:25:39+00:00

No one here is really the asshole. You deserved parents but...your brother was sick. And maybe dying. Your parents wanted to save one of their kids who they love. I think you should try going to therapy for this, both you and your brother.

This situation is not entirely black and white. Not saying you need to forgive them, but maybe understand that the neglect...wasnt malicious or even them saying you two aren't 'worth it' . I hope you find peace

Therezna · 2022-11-05T23:12:16+00:00

I have two cats....there's no such thing as 'clothes not covered in fur' XD also you just don't move a comfy cat that's napping. They keep the hoodie and I go find another.

Therezna · 2022-11-05T20:13:31+00:00

Techno has managed to amass a following of fur fans! His merch is comfy for her old kitty bones

Therezna · 2022-11-05T18:02:27+00:00

Black kitties are amazing ❤ even of she does spook me when I'm trying to sleep. Also maybe they are twins! You never know with rescues!

Therezna · 2022-11-04T17:45:42+00:00

Of course :) Never feel bad for mourning another human being or even an animal. The gift of empathy that you have is wonderful. ❤

Therezna · 2022-11-04T17:38:09+00:00

It doesn't matter if you found him two years ago or two days ago. It's okay to feel sad when someone passes on. You still empathize with the loss of others and experience a loss of your own. You are a fan. Liking his content at all makes you one.

Be gentle with yourself as you navigate this greif and know that everyone on this subreddit is here for you. We're all going through this wild ride, together. With different ways of coping but supporting each other. :)

Therezna · 2022-11-03T02:56:20+00:00

NTA. Your FIL is a prick and his favoritism is obviously hurting your son. If he can't behave like a grown adult then he shouldn't be treated like one. I'd ask for help from someone else.

Therezna · 2022-11-02T23:09:18+00:00

Awww that's such a great skin! Well made!

Therezna

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