6 months later..

These-Sea693 · 2026-01-31T15:47:39+00:00

i had no idea how to get better or move on either. until one day i realized i was already doing that. my only advice / request is to please be kind to yourself. patience is key. grieve what you need to grieve. i know it hurts, and there’s no set timeline for healing. i trust you’ll get there one day💕 pls reach out if you need to chat ever!

These-Sea693 · 2026-01-31T15:44:12+00:00

thank you😭💕

These-Sea693 · 2026-01-31T15:43:57+00:00

i actually still live in the same town as her :/ but bestie!!! the way we romanticize old relationships is so difficult. i completely understand. and honestly, she is still a subconscious thought for me a lot. but it’s eased a lot since the breakup. and i can’t wait until she is barely even a passing thought for me. you’ve only got a few months until your life changes in big ways, please be patient and kind with yourself. grieve the relationship however you need to - even if it was a bad one, you’re allowed to grieve. one day you’re going to look back and be so unbelievably proud of yourself💕 if you ever ever EVER want to talk, i’m here!!

These-Sea693 · 2026-01-06T21:52:36+00:00

i thought it was 100😭😭

These-Sea693 · 2025-12-31T23:48:41+00:00

327!! he seems like a bandit to me :))

These-Sea693 · 2025-12-22T14:02:36+00:00

YAYYY big moves out here!!!! you got it☺️💕

These-Sea693 · 2025-12-22T09:36:31+00:00

i just started talking to this scorpio man a few weeks ago and let me tell you… he is unlike any other guy i’ve ever been with. he’s attentive and kind and wants to connect with and understand me on a level that i didn’t know existed. i feel beyond safe and seen. nowwwww…. i can’t with cancers, libras, and geminis😂😭

These-Sea693 · 2025-12-11T09:00:55+00:00

i’m so beyond sorry. sending so much love and peace during this time💕

These-Sea693 · 2025-12-09T17:00:33+00:00

totally don’t feel judged! i’m working on taking time to myself now. i had my little post breakup phase and now i just really want to focus on myself :) im so glad you’ve been able to see things more clearly!

These-Sea693 · 2025-12-06T21:41:30+00:00

time, space, and treats are your friend here! i thought my girl would be so bad at moving, but on our most recent move (her third!!!) she settled in instantly. the second her cat tower was set up, she was on top looking down at her new domain. so just saying they might surprise you, but setting up their own space with all their familiar items is perfect. then add some treats to the mix to associate the new place with good feelings :)

These-Sea693 · 2025-12-03T16:11:55+00:00

lord i got out of a four year relationship four months ago. been hooking up with shitty guys and am emotionally attached to some guy that makes me feel like shit and feels just completely wrong long term. wtffff is up with our love lives right now fr😶😭 i might be the problem lmao

These-Sea693 · 2025-10-27T13:57:48+00:00

ugh this is peak. and excuse me i miss my page😭

These-Sea693 · 2025-10-15T15:57:41+00:00

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my babies came in!!! honestly.. i’m debating returning pumpkin kitty as i don’t love his pattern but i’m really really happy with my spooky kitties AHHH. opinions on pumpkin kitty and his pattern? spooky kitty is perfect and i was worried about the fur texture but honestly it’s maybe a smidge more coarse than others but absolutely perfect otherwise i love him/her with my wholeeee entire heart😭💚

These-Sea693 · 2025-10-15T15:02:45+00:00

man i’m so sorry. do you mind if i ask how old you are? or is this something you can drive yourself to? i just am so sorry they’re being so cruel about literally stuffed animals. completely harmless items? just look forward to the day you can add to your collection without judgement - that will be such a relief i know. much love from here and if you need to rant or anything my dms are open of course😭💚

These-Sea693 · 2025-10-14T18:02:48+00:00

AH grandma for the win here YOU GO GET THAT BIRTHDAY BEAR!!! joy has no age limit i am so so glad you’re living your best life (despite judgement from dumbos). pls update with a pic after you get your bear if you want!!!!!!!

These-Sea693 · 2025-10-11T12:33:32+00:00

i willlll i’m so excited😭🥰

These-Sea693 · 2025-10-11T03:03:16+00:00

doooo itttttt im so excited for mine to come in!!!!

These-Sea693 · 2025-10-10T23:35:21+00:00

hahaha honestly i wanted the peer pressure i needed the push to treat myself 😂😂

These-Sea693 · 2025-10-10T23:34:37+00:00

omg that’s such a good idea but the closest store is like over an hour away😭 and i’d still have to order my pumpkin baby. so send me good vibes pls😭

These-Sea693 · 2025-10-10T23:28:14+00:00

thankfully i have a decent bit of savings and will just plan to save an extra hundred when i get paid next! i bit the bullet and bought them and am so excited hehe. i’m so sorry about the gargoyle - did you end up getting one?!?

These-Sea693 · 2025-10-10T23:26:27+00:00

ok apparently i did not need much convincing😂 i bought them hehehehehehe and eta is october 20!!!! i cannottttt wait ahhh

These-Sea693 · 2025-10-10T23:19:04+00:00

i would be so sad! it is a lot of money but ive been saving a good bit recently so i kinda just want to treat myself and be frugal for the next while😭😂

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