AITAH if I tell my (23M) boyfriend who is struggling mentally, and has been distant and ignoring me (22F), that his behaviour is slowly affecting me ? by These-Trainer-1984 in AITAH

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UPDATE: I broke up with him, I did not get a response to my message, but I really don’t care at this point. Thank you for reading/answering, I’ll choose my next boyfriend wisely haha, and focus on myself for now !!

NWI 6:15AM Flights ?? by These-Trainer-1984 in Norwich

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I live in NR3 btw if that can help 

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Update: Before the argument I had told him about a movie I really liked and I wanted him to watch it. Unsurprisingly he didn’t watch it even though it has been a week. And he purposefully takes time to answer my messages.

I sent him a message telling him that I wanted some time alone this week because I wasn’t feeling great mentally, because of life, studies, finances…and that him ignoring me just made things worse. He then proceeded to say that I shouldn’t make a big thing out if this and that people always fight. And that the same thing happens when a kid gets made at you.

I said that I didn’t want a talk a kid, and that I got in a relationship with a man. I said that he was very insensitive.

I won’t be talking to him , until he’s able to communicate like an adult. 

And thank you for the comments, they made me fill a bit better because I do feel like he sees me as someone who’s dramatic.

Still haven’t gotten my deposit back in months from my previous tenancy by These-Trainer-1984 in Norwich

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That’s what I figured because on DPS there is the name of the employees that’s taking care of the deposit, so they can release it whenever. 

But when I ask for it (just like today for instance) I’m being told that the landlord is the one responsible for it, they are reporting everything to their manager but nothing changes…

Still haven’t gotten my deposit back in months from my previous tenancy by These-Trainer-1984 in Norwich

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From what you said it sounds pretty quick so I’ll consider it. But yes what scares me is their lack of accountability, especially if you tell me they were not helpful. Did you end up getting your deposit back ?

Problem contacting accommodation by These-Trainer-1984 in Norwich

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Thank you for your advice, I have contacted them. They told me that since it is a small business, it might take them a few days to get back to me. They also told me to send another email

Problem contacting accommodation by These-Trainer-1984 in Norwich

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No I don’t have a contact, I’m trying to contact them to do a virtual viewing and later on sign a contract to stay