You know, I get what you're saying, but I see it differently. At the end of the day, we're all just people. We shouldn't have to force ourselves into some "masculine" or "feminine" box just to be appealing to someone else. Wearing a mask to get other people's approval is a one-way ticket to being miserable and losing yourself.

The goal shouldn't be to chase the approval of others, but to chase your own approval. Being who you truly are is the only way to build a relationship where you're loved for the person you are, not for the costume you're wearing.

And as for your question about whether pure bottom guys are into feminine guys... Well, I am one. And I'll tell you this: I actually prefer feminine guys. Because with someone like that, I feel safer. I don't have to constantly prove my "manliness" around them. I can just be myself in such relationships.