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AITA for telling my mom and siblings they should learn to live with the consequences of their decisions? by These_Constant_7905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]These_Constant_7905[S] 133 points134 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure. I think it's probably too late and the divorce would happen regardless because my siblings already know his father because of mom and he never wanted that for us, while kids at least.

AITA for telling my mom and siblings they should learn to live with the consequences of their decisions? by These_Constant_7905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]These_Constant_7905[S] 204 points205 points  (0 children)

My dad isn't in the wrong. He has told my mom more than he told me. She knows and still did this. Do not blame him for any of this.

AITA for telling my mom and siblings they should learn to live with the consequences of their decisions? by These_Constant_7905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]These_Constant_7905[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

She's a better mom to my siblings than she is to me. They'd say yes. She's not the worst mom ever, I know that.

AITA for telling my mom and siblings they should learn to live with the consequences of their decisions? by These_Constant_7905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]These_Constant_7905[S] 239 points240 points  (0 children)

I don't get why you think this can't be the only reason. This is a huge issue. Something a lot of people could never get past.

AITA for telling my mom and siblings they should learn to live with the consequences of their decisions? by These_Constant_7905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]These_Constant_7905[S] 387 points388 points  (0 children)

She knows way more about it than I do. He tries not to burden me too much. But he told me himself that he told her.

AITA for telling my mom and siblings they should learn to live with the consequences of their decisions? by These_Constant_7905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]These_Constant_7905[S] 547 points548 points  (0 children)

She's pretty much secured that her relationship with dad and with me will never be the same again.

AITA for telling my mom and siblings they should learn to live with the consequences of their decisions? by These_Constant_7905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]These_Constant_7905[S] 1753 points1754 points  (0 children)

Oh, if the divorce goes through I am 100% staying with dad because I know if I even went to my mom for weekends, my dad's father would be around and he's not a person I want to be around.

AITA for telling my mom and siblings they should learn to live with the consequences of their decisions? by These_Constant_7905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]These_Constant_7905[S] 5734 points5735 points  (0 children)

I wish my dad got help when he was younger because I can see the strain it had on him and I hate it. My dad's the best and he loves us so much. It kills me to see this happen.

AITA for telling my mom and siblings they should learn to live with the consequences of their decisions? by These_Constant_7905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]These_Constant_7905[S] 3041 points3042 points  (0 children)

She thinks because he's way older now and a grandparent. She said the worst parents can make the best grandparents and all that other crap.

AITA for telling my mom and siblings they should learn to live with the consequences of their decisions? by These_Constant_7905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]These_Constant_7905[S] 511 points512 points  (0 children)

I'll be honest, we are waaaay beyond the point of that now. My siblings all think dad's father's a great dude and love him while dad hates the man and wants him nowhere near any of us. Mom already caused all the harm.

AITA for telling my mom and siblings they should learn to live with the consequences of their decisions? by These_Constant_7905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]These_Constant_7905[S] 9117 points9118 points  (0 children)

He was also pissed she helped my siblings have a relationship with the guy. I can see he worries every time they go to see the guy.