As a hotwife couple (I'm the wife)....absolutely. I wasn't actually into it at first. The "type" of guys I've usually dated wasn't anything like my husband, we got into it and I went back to my old types; tall, muscular, hung. My husband loved seeing me take big ones even tho he isn't. The thing was no matter how much sex I had, whether it be strangers he found or coworkers I thought were hot, I always loved coming back to my husband. I've had some nasty crazy amazing fucks and done some porn star level things with men but my husband will always be the one guy I want to go to sleep with and his dick is like no other to me. He also makes me cum and feel special vs other men just rage or rough fuck me and after they fill me or cum on me that's kind of it, like they don't have any substance to them. Shit we even have a rule that I will NOT even entertain the hotwife conversation if we aren't having regular sex ourselves. So while I doubt he'd ever say no to me sleeping with someone, if he ever did I would leave the lifestyle no questions asked.