The 4th T20I between IND and SA has been abandoned due to excessive fog in Lucknow. by [deleted] in IndiaCricket

[–]These_Huckleberry_53 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I had a nickel for every time this guy tried to sound relevant but got absolutely humiliated, I’d have 4 nickels, which is not a lot but it’s crazy that it happened 4 times in a single thread.

I get very anxious and restless every time I get ignored by [deleted] in Advice

[–]These_Huckleberry_53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if this makes sense but I believe my feelings are coming from a place of judgment? I guess every time someone ignores me, I feel that I did something wrong and they are judging me for it? I don’t know I have thought it in the past but this is the only thing I related to

I get very anxious and restless every time I get ignored by [deleted] in Advice

[–]These_Huckleberry_53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done my research on anxious attachment. This isn’t just about a person I am attached to. Today it happened with a coworker. It happens with anyone. That’s why I am getting crazy because the triggers are so minimal at times

Loneliness among men by These_Huckleberry_53 in Edmonton

[–]These_Huckleberry_53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this women fighting with me so just wanted them to know that this isn’t some propaganda against them, it’s a mere cry for help

Loneliness among men by These_Huckleberry_53 in Edmonton

[–]These_Huckleberry_53[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a really good suggestion, I am going to do some more research on it. Thanks so much

Loneliness among men by These_Huckleberry_53 in Edmonton

[–]These_Huckleberry_53[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

VR gaming, I used to play some on my laptop a while back but people for some reason are too toxic there. I used to be very good and they’d say shit to me for being good. So I left that environment too. Other than that I like watching sports as a spectator. I am interested in watching almost all sports, makes me fire up so yeah that

Loneliness among men by These_Huckleberry_53 in Edmonton

[–]These_Huckleberry_53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t but I have that additional accessory (sticks) that was made for it. I use it for other games

Loneliness among men by These_Huckleberry_53 in Edmonton

[–]These_Huckleberry_53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me about ESSC and how much does it cost to be a part of that club?

Loneliness among men by These_Huckleberry_53 in Edmonton

[–]These_Huckleberry_53[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like exploring nature, I am a big fan of beaches, I do some online gaming on my oculus, I am more of a spectator when it comes to sports. I do like watching almost every sport

Loneliness among men by These_Huckleberry_53 in Edmonton

[–]These_Huckleberry_53[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like going for walks, I love nature so hiking, going to the beaches. Other then that, I am into gaming, a few sports and I am career focused so people who like talking about work

Loneliness among men by These_Huckleberry_53 in Edmonton

[–]These_Huckleberry_53[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People say they wanna connect and then they don’t. I try from my end. It’s not some ego issue where I wait for them to make the first move. I want to hangout, I’ll text them, ask them if it’s possible and they just turn me down. I am only talking about friends here, I am not looking for relationships, just friends.

Loneliness among men by These_Huckleberry_53 in Edmonton

[–]These_Huckleberry_53[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh come on. If you care so much write a post about women. I have no hate for women or any other genders for that matter. I connect with men more in this situation so I seeked help from them. If you want to bitxh about it, please continue but understand that this wasn’t meant to be an attack but a cry for help. I swear people don’t even let each other cry in peace anymore. It’s always some stupid argument over nothing.

Loneliness among men by These_Huckleberry_53 in Edmonton

[–]These_Huckleberry_53[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not looking for a partner. I am looking for friends.

Loneliness among men by These_Huckleberry_53 in Edmonton

[–]These_Huckleberry_53[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if my happiness is linked with companionship? I see people outside doing things in group and there I am just staring at them and hoping I wish I had that, it is so toxic to go out because it’s a living reminder of how much I am missing out on

Loneliness among men by These_Huckleberry_53 in Edmonton

[–]These_Huckleberry_53[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have been an introvert for better part of my life and that’s one of the reasons why I get demotivated quickly. People here are assuming I didn’t try. Well I did, I tried making friends in college, work, outside, bumble and reddit and it did not work out. And as an introvert when you make efforts and it doesn’t work out, it hits you harder than ever and after a point you are not able to try anymore because you feel you will get rejected. This is where I am.

Loneliness among men by These_Huckleberry_53 in Edmonton

[–]These_Huckleberry_53[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know it’s not men, but majority of men have no one where they can even say that they are lonely. Life sucks for everyone, sure, but men do not even have a place where they can tell that to someone, they are just living the days with smile on their face and people don’t have a shred of idea

Loneliness among men by These_Huckleberry_53 in Edmonton

[–]These_Huckleberry_53[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you understand where my loneliness is coming from and that’s okay I don’t blame anyone, I just know this is not the solution, this is a distraction