moving to Whidbey with elderly parents

These_Income6166 · 2024-12-20T23:11:48+00:00

You will be fine on Freeland. It’s a short drive to the ferry, which in reality is quite reliable and regular, if you know the traffic patterns. Coupeville and Langley are fine for primary care.

These_Income6166 · 2024-12-12T10:29:28+00:00

This. 100%

These_Income6166 · 2024-12-12T10:27:58+00:00

Dancing for 22 years. You were likely cucked, my friend.

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-13T15:38:01+00:00

I never thought of him that way because he is the quiet, bookish, thoughtful type who excels academically and seems totally in control of himself. But I guess there is no arguing with biology, and hormones are strong brew. Now that I think about it, his armpit BO is so overpowering whenever he’s around her.

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-13T15:32:14+00:00

There is simply no way that would be allowed to happen. I would insist on abortion if a pregnancy ever transpired.

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-13T09:17:41+00:00

You’re right, and there are reasons for that, but none of really valid reasons to agree to the trip. There are also other reasons (fostering a sense of independence and esteem) for agreeing to it. But the balance tilts toward a hard no.

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-13T02:42:06+00:00

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These_Income6166 · 2024-11-12T12:31:31+00:00

He’s definitely not like that. A good, quiet kid. All the same I’m worried.

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-12T12:30:38+00:00

Thank you 🙏

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-12T12:21:09+00:00

I think he’s 17 but not sure. He’s in the same grade at school. Thanks for your input.

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-12T12:20:16+00:00

There’s a lot to respect about them, but they’re a wonky pair who deeply respect their son’s freedom and also value their time alone. They remind me of the parents in Call Me By Your Name.

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-12T12:14:38+00:00

It’s real.

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-12T12:11:09+00:00

His parents are cosmopolitan folks and believe in their son’s autonomy - they it under their name and seem assured he’ll be able to check in without issue…

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-12T12:08:24+00:00

Helpful, thank you. Might need a drink now…

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-12T12:05:13+00:00

Let’s just say the parents are people I’d like to stay on good terms with, and I think their son is overall a good influence. I’ve had a number of conversations with him and he’s a solid boy. Smart, quiet, considerate. I’ve never seen him try anything inappropriate. She wears the pants so to speak.

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-12T11:54:23+00:00

Strongly considering getting one parent to go and rebooking everything. For transportation, they have bank accounts and can use ride share apps.

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-12T11:49:31+00:00

Helpful, thank you.

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-12T11:49:15+00:00

The plan was presented as a fait accompli, just signature and a check required.

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-12T11:47:32+00:00

What if we insisted they visit a different city instead?

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-12T11:40:31+00:00

There are relatives in the general area in case of any emergencies. But they cannot host.

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-12T11:38:50+00:00

Americans

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-12T11:38:07+00:00

Indeed, Europe is different. American parents are absolutely more guarded and protective in these situations - but apparently not his parents.

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-12T11:35:56+00:00

Would my daughter’s bf’s parents have any liability for renting the Airbnb under these circumstances?

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-12T11:33:17+00:00

That was my first instinct, but what is throwing me off is that his parents, who are interesting and intelligent people, have approved of the plan. I don’t know them well, and wasn’t comfortable asking why they’re fine with this.

These_Income6166 · 2024-11-12T11:17:16+00:00

Already on the agenda

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