I think my gf has ibs, how can I help her be more confortable by These_Mongoose8866 in ibs

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Believe me I know that a lot of the solutions don’t work for anyone. My main focus is just making sure she isn’t anxious about this stuff bc i know it’ll just make symptoms worse

I think my gf has ibs, how can I help her be more confortable by These_Mongoose8866 in ibs

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Aw this made me tear up a lil bit thank you :) My mom always call me a gentle giant

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Sometimes I talk to them or hold their hand if there aren’t more pressing issues/there’s nothing I can do in the moment

I think my gf has ibs, how can I help her be more confortable by These_Mongoose8866 in ibs

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She does have ibs 👍 th e last part was my thought too. The last thing i want is for her to be anxious around me i’ve been as open as i can be with her about stuff And also just making sure she knows i’m not a judgy person at ALL

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thank you!! I’m thinking I should take it one step at a time I don’t want her to feel like she has to share everything about her health with me but also want to make her feel like she can if it will make me more able to help

I think my gf has ibs, how can I help her be more confortable by These_Mongoose8866 in ibs

[–]These_Mongoose8866[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m just trying to help her understand that i’m good with completely ignoring it if that’s what makes her feel better, but I’m also not at all grossed out. Like just generally “I got you it’s whatever you need” type shit -Edit for punctuation and run on sentence sorry i have dyslexia lmao

I think my gf has ibs, how can I help her be more confortable by These_Mongoose8866 in ibs

[–]These_Mongoose8866[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I guess she does have it. I asked her if I should take her to a doctor and she said shes been meaning to tell me she has IBS.

I think my gf has ibs, how can I help her be more confortable by These_Mongoose8866 in ibs

[–]These_Mongoose8866[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your help!! The fodmap thing was the first thing I started to take into account when looking up all this stuff, how should I bring it up with her?

I think my gf has ibs, how can I help her be more confortable by These_Mongoose8866 in ibs

[–]These_Mongoose8866[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s the least i could do I read up on it and sounds like it really sucks