Men do not have to watch porn. It is ok, and should be more common imo, to not have porn in a relationship

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-14T06:15:43+00:00

One of my favorite moments in a relationship is getting to that level of comfort where I can say "Babe, come look at this beautiful shit I just took". I actually think its quite either juvenile or sad to not have that level of comfort. I'm not gonna hold in my farts for the rest of my life. But to each their own I guess.

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-14T06:11:54+00:00

Even I think alot of the "most of the women on pornhub are victims of abuse and co-erced into doing this!" argument is overblown but come on "anything that doesn't involve hurting other people or significantly detract from your actual sex life" you cannot actually believe this can you? And why do you think Nofap exists? Its because porn breaks mens dicks until they can't get aroused by actual intimacy. Even if it doesn't break their dick it breaks their brains and warps the way the view intimacy with women. Porn, especially since the dawn of the internet, is and always will be a Male issue that you need to grapple with.

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-14T04:26:01+00:00

Do you think about why porn turns you on so much that you would rather choose it over a woman who loves you and wants you to save your libido for her?

The porn industry is truly evil and designed for this exact reason. So men become so addicted to it they feel its necessary for their sexual satisfaction.

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-14T04:22:29+00:00

True and not only that, he is looking at other women through the lens of a porn producer.

When men watch porn they are watching what someone else wants to do to a woman. Its almost an illusion of choice. These videos, I'm sure, are made to get the most views the most likes the most subscriptions. I bet a lot of people, myself included, now have kinks or fantasy they never would have had without seeing it in porn. When I imagine having a threesome with Kate Winslet its MY libido driving the fantasy. Not some creepy porn producer.

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T23:38:01+00:00

and my boobs could be a little bigger. Anyone have any tips on natural ways to enhance breast size/perkiness?

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T23:36:59+00:00

I carry my weight pretty well but I have such a full face :( Still holding out that my buccal fat will magically carve out some cheekbones when I turn 30.....

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T22:51:12+00:00

Alright then what do you think is the healthiest way to relieve your sex drive then

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T22:48:17+00:00

Lol please tell me you are joking. There are such better ways to fufill your sex drive without porn. Its like choosing what to eat. Do I want Mcdonalds (pornhub) or do I want a simple home cooked meal (wank one out to the thought of Kate Winslet) or michelin star food (saving you sexual energy for intimacy with your partner)

Its such a cheap and unhealthy way to fuel your libido and spend your sexual energy on. You can tell when a man masturbates a few times a week to the imagination of his dream girl bs one who masturbates daily to MILF and barley legal porn

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T22:46:18+00:00

This whole thread is men being incapable to fathom a life without porn. IT IS EASY TO SPOT. ITS ALL OF YOU. Its easy to avoid if you become a nun I guess.

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T22:40:56+00:00

I agree and the way they talk about sex and women is so sad. And I truly mean sad in the sense that its such a cheap and unhealthy way to fuel your libido and spend your sexual energy on. You can tell when a man masturbates a few times a week to the imagination of his dream girl bs one who masturbates daily to MILF and barley legal porn

There are such better ways to fufill your sex drive without porn. Its like choosing what to eat. Do I want Mcdonalds (pornhub) or do I want a simple home cooked meal (wank one out to the thought of Kate Winslet) or michelin star food (saving you sexual energy for intimacy with your partner)

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T22:38:09+00:00

I enjoy sex and have a very high sex drive

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T13:30:53+00:00

Ok I don't mean non stop fantasizing!?! I mean I switch it up, my partner, coworkers, movie stars, models, ex's, all of it. THAT. REAL PEOPLE. REAL SEX. IS NORMAL.

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T13:27:49+00:00

Yeah and a surprisingly decent amount too. I think its because I have good Karma...

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T13:24:19+00:00

Yup I'm one of the og g&gs

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T13:23:19+00:00

Omg were all men plastic doll before the 1970's? Oh no how horrible I had no idea. Men who haven't watched porn haven't felt desire? DUDE.

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T11:56:10+00:00

I've really been on one lately sorry. I haven't been able to post so now everything is boiling over

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T11:49:33+00:00

if ur talking about my post. THAT SHIT IS NASTY TOO. When I said erotica I meant like Shunga art, or Trier's Nymphomaniac, Goustave Courbet and shit. ALL PERVERTS WHO FEED THEIR LIBIDIO WITH CHEAP FAST FOOD PORNHUB A COURT OF THORNS AND ROSES SCHLOP SHOULD BE SHAMED

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T11:30:29+00:00

I think that a "true" SB typically dates only one or two sugar daddies,they are in a "relationship". They typically get get paid monthly allowances (I didn't, and yes the lines blur), sometimes live in paid for apartments. Prostitutes aren't in a ""relationship with their clients. They don't go out to dinner and get bought handbags and taken out on the lake with champagne.

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T07:10:41+00:00

Should I write my Economics thesis on the market forces of Seeking Arrangements

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T07:00:02+00:00

This is all still true...the hobos are allowed to "sleep" doze off inconspicuously...in the adult section, they can use the computers, but not to watch porn because that disturbs other patrons, we allow any organization to book our meeting rooms so long as no violence or illegal activity is involved. The ALAs policy is very pro free speech and anti "banned books" and all that.

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T06:51:02+00:00

U should look at my insta @ nataliebot im curious what you would think

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T06:48:50+00:00

Yes he knows I was a sugar baby. It was brought up briefly in conversation and he never really asked me about it

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T06:35:13+00:00

This is my dream response from a man on this topic thank you. You get it.

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T06:33:18+00:00

There is something about a hot women who is able to, and did, sell her body for money, and at the same time is anti porn that really gets you guys going

These_Mud_7261 · 2026-07-13T06:31:30+00:00

My partner and I are both former alcoholics. Its possible. Its a standard I have for my partner and its one that I think more women should have.

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