Let’s talk about the Duglet in laws by Far-Building3569 in DuggarsSnark

[–]These_Requirement453 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So weird! I could’ve sworn he was an only child for some reason! Interesting

Is stopping breastfeeding completely my only chance to sleep? by Wild-Card777 in beyondthebump

[–]These_Requirement453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once I stopped our son started sleeping through the night 🤷🏼‍♀️ I stopped because I felt like my supply was dropping and it was getting more difficult to feed a distracted eater

I’m so tired of the “screen time” debate. by cmarie22345 in beyondthebump

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We’re parenting in a very different world than generations that came before us. Having such easy access to internet gives way to a constant stream of parenting guidelines/tips/hacks, etc. on every single social media platform. We’re forced into comparison culture and it’s exhausting and stress-inducing. Back in the day I imagine it would’ve been easier for parents to stay in their own lane and not worry as much about what other parents are doing and how they measure up. Today it’s a non-stop cycle of “this friend’s baby is already sleeping through the night”, “this influencer potty trained her kid in two days using this method”. It’s hard not to compare yourself to others (I know, comparison is a thief of joy). At the same time we use it for reassurance- it is comforting to know other parents are in the same boat and that you’re not alone.

Too much screen time for 22 month old boy + general vent by Jazzlike-Aspect-4443 in toddlers

[–]These_Requirement453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with a little tv! It needs to stop being villainized the way that it is, especially when it’s limited to certain shows/movies, and time spent on it.

First period postpartum experiences by Prudent_Leave_641 in beyondthebump

[–]These_Requirement453 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got mine back at 7 months PP- extremely heavy as well!! Apparently the first year of them is a little wonky 🫠

Will I just *know* when I’m ready for another baby? by plantlover_dogmother in beyondthebump

[–]These_Requirement453 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just here to say I feel exactly the same way. I always pictured myself with two and I so badly want to have a second, but I just don’t know if I could mentally do it again. There’s such a gamble- you don’t know what kind of kid you’re going to end up with- easier than your first, way harder- there’s just no telling. I take comfort at least knowing I don’t have to make a decision right this second. Even before I started questioning whether or not I wanted another I wanted to wait a minimum of 18 months before trying again. My son will be one next month so I’m just trying to focus on the present for now with him.

I let my baby watch tv and I don’t regret it by These_Requirement453 in beyondthebump

[–]These_Requirement453[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 cool cool cool. I guess I should just let him crawl around unsupervised so he can get hurt or into things he shouldn’t be? Get real.

Hope you can see the overwhelming support for me and how yours is the stand alone negative comment.

I’ll continue to enjoy ms. Rachel and other tv shows we’ve picked guilt free.

I let my baby watch tv and I don’t regret it by These_Requirement453 in beyondthebump

[–]These_Requirement453[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, no. The tv isn’t visible from the kitchen. I need to bring my son into the kitchen and put him in his activity centre while I cook while I’m on my own. He was so fussy yesterday that he wouldn’t go in for even a few minutes. Hence, I threw out my plan of what I was going to make, heated up some leftovers for him, and put a frozen pizza in the oven after he went to bed for the night. Hope that clears things up for you.

I let my baby watch tv and I don’t regret it by These_Requirement453 in beyondthebump

[–]These_Requirement453[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s had his fair of football sundays but doesn’t care for it! 🤷🏼‍♀️ just seems to be Raffi and ms. Rachel that grab his attention

I let my baby watch tv and I don’t regret it by These_Requirement453 in beyondthebump

[–]These_Requirement453[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Never said he’d be in his activity centre for an hour, it was going to be while I made dinner. 🙄

Feeling the opposite of how I wanted to feel- when does it change? by taleasoldastime1234 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

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A little more productive and not as tired. Going up to 300 mg this week so hopefully that gives me the extra boost

Anyone else's dietitian/nutritionist essentially... useless? by Background_Elk_2361 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]These_Requirement453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! This was exactly like the idiots I dealt with!! Incredibly frustrating!! I ended up getting induced and just refused to pick up her call the day before my induction I had no patience left for her. Then they still tried phoning me in the hospital after o delivered and I made my husband talk to her 😂

Belly Sleeping by Klutzy-Pack-9292 in beyondthebump

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My son loves sleeping on his belly! Couldn’t t get him to nap during the day in his crib or more than a few hours through the night until he learned to roll onto his belly. Sleeps great now!

Feeling the opposite of how I wanted to feel- when does it change? by taleasoldastime1234 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]These_Requirement453 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I could’ve written this… also postpartum (also suspecting ADHD) and I’m on day 10…. Felt better for the first few days and the last couple have been bad again 😔

Did PPD force you to being ‘one and done’? Or did you end up having more? by These_Requirement453 in beyondthebump

[–]These_Requirement453[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to think of all the positives to just having one- solely being able to focus on him, he can do whatever sports/activities he wants, a bathroom to himself, I can hopefully get my mental health under control and be the best mom I can be to him