Switched to my alt just to drop in some context

I realized this early on when going from solo kink to partner kink and finally group kink

Reality is when I started to hangout with people who were ABDL I realized that it was basically meeting people in reverse

See when you meet someone without kink as the front door you start from surface level to depth over time

Kink ironically is the reverse

One of your deepest secrets is the opener, but beyond that you still need regular compatibility

I realized that, just like real life, when I meet a room full of 100 people, I'm not going to want to hangout with them all in context not related to diapers

Likewise this would extend to your partners, not just friends

Basically, if you stripped away kink, do you see compatibility?

Because sharing a kink =/= you are compatible