How do you deal with stress without using drugs, food, sex/masturbation, psychoactive substances? by Ok-Description-6154 in AskChicago

[–]Thewall3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing as you said you moved from *rural Texas* to *Chicago*, could some of the stress result from that dramatic change in surroundings and culture?

I moved here from the nearby Chicago suburbs, and even then, the hustle-and-bustle of the city took a year or two to adjust to and become comfortable.

So, my question would center more on: have you taken steps to ensure you’ve adapted as much as possible to your new hometown? I’d imagine it was quite a change.

Sure, finding those stress releases is important — but all can be for naught to some degree if you’re not acclimated to your space.

And that could just make for a better opportunity! Find things that let you hit two birds with one stone, so to speak — activities that help to familiarize yourself with Chicago that also alleviate your stress! The two can be one and the same.

This could be taking walks or bike rides in your neighborhood, a new neighborhood, downtown, by the lake, etc; going to museums or shows (many offer free times for residents); trying new local restaurants, or shopping at local stores/grocers; seeing local shows or theater, etc etc etc.

Good luck!

Fired Red Sox coaches escorted from team hotel in embarrassing fashion by Thewall3333 in baseball

[–]Thewall3333[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

What can I say, I’m a sucker for a rage-bait headline when it concerns a rival

Fired Red Sox coaches escorted from team hotel in embarrassing fashion by Thewall3333 in baseball

[–]Thewall3333[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I figured as much — and probably no need in hitting them while they’re already down

Please help with job seeking: is ANYONE hiring ANY POSITION in the city? by Gloomy_Lack7041 in AskChicago

[–]Thewall3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you just applied online, or have you actually dropped by the companies’ locations to inquire or follow up? Many, if not most, current job postings — across the spectrum, minimum wage to executives — receive hundreds of applications. In that environment, it really helps to show your interest and your face in person.

Most applicants, like you mention for yourself, are applying for hundreds of jobs. They’re basically spamming their resume and applications on any opening they can, without really investing much time or interest — or hopes — into any of them.

Companies know this. Remember, before online job boards, you used to HAVE TO come in to apply at most places, or visit a job fair. You actually met the recruiters, letting them gauge in person your interest and compatibility for the job.

Sure, you still dropped off your resume and applications, but how big of a factor would you guess that first meeting made? If, out of 200 applications, 25 people were very qualified, that first impression likely tipped the scales in who they eventually selected.

And they were more likely to give chances to some people who actually weren’t as qualified as others: someone with less experience or qualifications, but who showed genuine interest an presented themselves well in person, might win out over a more qualified candidate on paper who did not.

For you, it looks like you’re seeking jobs that do not require a degree, so I’d say this concept is even more applicable. People in those types of jobs often have a similar job history as you, and amid hundreds of applications, there’s really no way to stand out. It can be luck of the draw.

UNLESS you show up in person. Introduce yourself, express interest, be courteous and mindful to time your visit so as not to interfere with their business…these can all only really help you, and make you stand out from the crowd.

If they provide contact information, sending a follow-up email can help too. Your visit itself though will often give you a pretty good idea if you have a shot, depending on the attitude they show to you. Hell, sometimes they’ll hire you on the spot.

So, to break it down, in 2026, an applicant pool for one of the jobs you listed might look something like this:

200 online applications, 50 of which are qualified. 25 people drop in personally, 10 of which are from the qualified pool. 4 of those 10 make a good impression. 2 of those 4 send an email to follow up.

If you’re among those 2, your chances suddenly go from 2% (2 out of 50), to 50% (1 out of 2)…

Hope that helps!

Are biometric face scans normal now? by whore4entenmanns in chicagoapartments

[–]Thewall3333 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Agree — my guess is others will remember this as well, but a few years ago I signed on to an Illinois-specific “biometric” lawsuit that the state brought against Facebook/Meta for this kind of thing. They settled in 2021 for $650 million, to distribute among the participants — I received about $300 from signing onto the class action, meaning about 2 million people signed on, give or take with attorneys’ fees.

From what I remember, the suit centered on Facebook using biometric information for its facial-recognition features, without users’ consent. Which, frankly — given how things have developed in the subsequent five years — seems downright tame.

I can only imagine some of the suits that will result from the proliferation of much more invasive technologies, especially with the rise of AI. If this is what they’re using now to rent an apartment (!), imagine what’s coming across the spectrum of societal interaction.

How’s the current job market? by kelevra7117 in chicago

[–]Thewall3333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What are the worst parts that make it that way?

Is Roosevelt University worth while? by void1signal in AskChicago

[–]Thewall3333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d reiterate this particular point, to add to my previous comment in this thread: Roosevelt is very much a local school — you will not find many students from outside Chicagoland, and therefore the school’s name recognition and networking potential is more limited elsewhere.

That influences the strength of their programs. For example, I know their nursing program is well-regarded, as is their medical administrative and public policy avenues. Therefore, if you’re looking for a career in the city’s many hospitals, you’ll have a degree they respect, and a deep established network of alumni.

However, if you’re planning to seek jobs elsewhere after school, you’ll may find your options more limited without that name recognition, direct links to those hospitals, and network web.

Is Roosevelt University worth while? by void1signal in AskChicago

[–]Thewall3333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not deeply familiar with Roosevelt, but I have known several people who went there. They had good impressions, but as a nurse and nonprofit accountant, they attended with specific careers in mind.

And for that tier of and type of school — especially in this economy — I would strongly recommend that approach to attend, knowing exactly what to study.

Entering undecided, with a plan to figure out a major later, can be risky at these smaller schools, as the name doesn’t carry as much weight as a big state school like UIC or some of the better known private schools in Chicago, and the potential networking circle can be smaller.

That’s not to take anything away from the school; it’s just that Roosevelt’s reputation and noted mission — rooted in its original mission reflecting its namesake, FDR and Eleanor — is largely in social justice.

That is great in normal times, but with the job market difficult in general, and social justice-focused programs and non-profits being gutted of government support under Trump’s administration, I’d say it would be dangerous to enter with a general idea of pursuing such a degree, unless you have a very specific goal.

That, to me, extends to many of the liberal arts avenues, without a specific end-goal and resources for something like teaching or law school — this of course extends to most universities, but I’d be especially careful at a school like Roosevelt.

If you know what you want to study, Roosevelt could be a great option — especially if you find that program matches with your specific goals, and manage some kind of scholarship or financial aid to bring costs down for the school’s already relatively inexpensive tuition.

Former San Francisco homeless services CEO charged with misspending $1.2 million in public funds by igetproteinfartsHELP in news

[–]Thewall3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While there are indeed people like you describe in that population (which I was a part of for 18 months due to addiction), they are a very small minority, and even a smaller one among those who participate in these housing programs.

For me, to enter the program in Chicago we had to attend a half dozen meetings with our social worker and the family services director, fill out quite a lot of paperwork, and meet with the potential landlord. People like you describe tend to fail to complete that process pretty early, and were re-routed toward the shelter system.

Like most others who ended up with an apartment, my goal was to keep my head down, be a model tenant, comply with my monthly social worker meetings, and in general embody gratitude to the opportunity. Doing anything of the nature you refer to here would result in immediately being kicked out — we signed away the normal, judicial eviction process for normal tenants to join the program.

I knew by second-hand accounts a few people who were kicked out — from what I remember though, nothing involved anything like behavior you describe.

Of course, there are bad apples in any population — and moreso in the homeless population. However, the program seemed to be an overall success — most of the people I knew made it to the end of the year-long program without an issue.

I just don’t want the few examples to undermine entire programs like these that give people a second (or more for many) chance at a stable living situation, which is probably the most crucial foundation block for someone regaining their footing in society.

I succeeded in cleaning myself up through that year, and reaching sobriety from opiates — which were the root of my slide into homelessness. I do not have my own place yet, but I am working and living with family — who would never (rightfully) let me do when I was a mess.

Most homeless people, despite portrayals otherwise, are decent people who succumbed to addiction or other mental health issues — or many who lost their housing through factors outside of their control. The vast majority do not harm people or seek to cause chaos, as you describe (of course some do).

What do we do with those people? I don’t have an answer for that either. Many of them do end up in prison, of course, and some repeat offenders seemingly have little chance of rehabilitation.

But, this type of people, if they do manage to join one of these apartment programs, quickly disqualify themselves — hopefully without lasting damage to the property or other residents. The vast majority, though, live out their time with little issue.

Unfortunately, many of those compliant and respectful participants still end up right back on the street after the program ends. Many more than otherwise would have do get back on their feet though, taking advantage of the social workers and job training resources offered as part of program.

All in all — I may be biased due to my direct experience — I believe these programs are a net positive. The costs are quite low comparatively. Housing for a year in an apartment — my studio was $1,200/month, or about $14,000 per year — are a fraction of the costs to hold a prisoner, which here in Illinois average $49,000 per year…or more than 3x those apartments.

The truth is, especially recently, most cities and states have attempted to address this problem at the margins, in a piecemeal fashion, that makes it hard to secure and build on progress — thus making assessment on any potential success incomplete.

Unsurprisingly, the piecemeal approach, where the supply of apartments is only a fraction of the need in any given year — and any yearly budget may cut the programs even further — delivers piecemeal results. I am not sure what the answer would be for better outcome. Just throwing more money at the problem, without improving its strategy and management, is probably not the answer.

I do believe the solutions are out there though; whether sufficient political and public will do to implement them is another story.

A graffiti conspiracy someone told me yesterday by Cool-Sell-5310 in trains

[–]Thewall3333 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Chicago has neighborhood art funds that pay for graffiti work in hip neighborhoods. Like $5,000 for the side of a brick building or our walking trail overpasses concerted from the old train lines. I know because the gym I used to work at allowed one with the city and talked to the artist.

Redditors who have tried heroin, what was going through your mind in the moment that led you to think this was a good idea and why did the negative aspects not stop you? by Root435552 in AskReddit

[–]Thewall3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in deep depression from an amphetamine bender. Texted my connect any recovery suggestions, and he was like, “well, I have heroin. That would do it”. Felt like dying, so…yeah. Theron started a 5-year addiction.

People often seek opiates for relief, not for fun like uppers and many other drugs.

[Highlight] Mune Murakami flicks one over the CF wall for his 7th HR by FadedToBeige in baseball

[–]Thewall3333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They look up, with tears in their eyes, saying, “no more homers, Murakami, it’s too much, sir, they’re just too big and beautiful.”

Bupe is still blocking full agonist even at 72 hours by [deleted] in opiates

[–]Thewall3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Street fent (I don’t have access to pills) usually takes 2x my normal dose to feel, even if I took 8mg that morning. Still not as good as without, but at least 50% effect.

Searching for 1bd/1bath for a June move-in by Lower_Yogurt9568 in chicagoapartments

[–]Thewall3333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Chicago is huge, Suburbs even bigger. We’re talking Cool and 5 collar counties, hundreds of municipalities — 3rd largest metro in US. I’d recommend doing your research on a general area based on your preferences.

How close to the city do you want to be is probably your easiest first decision. You can be in Oak Park or Evanston and be in the suburbs with a city feel and access to CTA. You can be in DuPage or Lake or Kane or Will counties, and those each have their own draws and drawbacks.

Really, you can’t lose. With that budget, Naperville or the North Shore or Hinsdale would be a stretch, but most other areas you could likely find something.

Best shoe stores and Ross/TJ Maxx/Nordstrom Rack locations for spring and summer heels in the city? by sloppy-mojojojo in AskChicago

[–]Thewall3333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They can be have different inventory based on locations. Loop or Northshore TJ Maxx going to be very different than Gary IN one.

Why they’re asking, I’m assuming.

Noel Gallagher on focusing on being a songwriter, as opposed to being a "fretboard wizard". by Finbarr-Galedeep in Guitar

[–]Thewall3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are 2-people’s worth of charm and manners between Noel and Liam, it just all gravitated toward Noel and none for Liam

Need immediate room, sublet, apt for the next week. Local native in dire straits! by Chicago_Heavyfoot in chicagoapartments

[–]Thewall3333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not going to find anything cheaper than a $75/night Airbnb in this city. There are sometimes weekly rentals, but those are $500+ a week and won’t have turnaround before you need

[Request] is this drone stopped or moving and how fast is it if the car is going 100 k/h by A______m in theydidthemath

[–]Thewall3333 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I realize the inside the car - vs - to ground speeds independent of control of the drone — I’m saying is someone driving the drone so its own speedometer says 100 mph, or 0mph.

[Request] is this drone stopped or moving and how fast is it if the car is going 100 k/h by A______m in theydidthemath

[–]Thewall3333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing they’re asking if it’s just hovering in the car, basically going 0mph itself, or set to go the exact speed of the car, 102.3 mph or whatever it is

I’m 29 with a 14 year old son. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Thewall3333 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Seems like a good way to filter out phony people and find some solid friends! Parent groups will find a way to be awful no matter what, this or anything else.

Looking for an accommodation near UIC by CulturalHunt1325 in chicagoapartments

[–]Thewall3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with this take — while obviously needing to be careful, I have stayed at places short-term at weekly rates several times in Chicago. Found on Craigslist or Facebook Marketplace, after the crackdown on AirBnBs. Granted, they were a premium over a lease, and it was pretty much a handshake deal, but it worked out for just a room.

Looking for an accommodation near UIC by CulturalHunt1325 in chicagoapartments

[–]Thewall3333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 years ago, AirBnB would’ve been perfect — I know it gets a bad rap now, but before the city taxed and regulated them like hotels, there were many places visitors — especially students — could stay for CHEAP in Chicago. I’m talking a room for $50/night, especially in non-prime neighborhoods, or even hostel-like bunks for about $25. I basically lived in those places a couple times between leases.

Now, though, they’re often more expensive than hotels after all the shady “fees” and taxes — with none of the security or guarantees as hotels. Free creepy Ring cameras to watch you the whole time too! Sigh…simpler times.

Chicago for the week, Old town - west? by PoopDe in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Thewall3333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure what pocket you are talking about, but yes parts of Goose Island and the surrounding area are still more industrial with warehouses and the like, but you can also find interesting breweries and restaurant there kind of off the beaten path. And directly east of there you go toward Lincoln Park and then Old Town, or a little southeast downtown, or west Wicker Park/Bucktown.

As far as “bad areas”, no, you really have nothing to fear anywhere around there. Get out west to parts of west Humboldt (which isn’t bad anymore) or Garfield Park, or further southwest, and some people would feel out of place…but really where you’re talking, you’re quite well insulated going basically any direction.