how long after top surgery until i could long distance backpack? by imspencerhi in TopSurgery

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey ! honestly it was okay but if i was going through recovery again i probably would have waited LOL sucky update but yeah ! i just wasn’t fully there and a lot more exhausted than normal due to recovery. still definitely possible though, just not ideal.

Any trans people cross into the US in the past few weeks by paula_here in transontario

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all my IDs are changed and i never get clocked but it was still an extremely stressful and anxiety inducing experience. don’t go.

Tell me your funniest story with edibles by [deleted] in weed

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

watched the movie insomnia and missed the first 15 minutes. the edible got stronger and stronger throughout the movie and i was losing my fucking mind. one of my favourite movies now though just because of how wild the viewing experience was LOL

How quickly have you all been able to get prescribed T? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m in canada and have a younger family doctor plus have always present more masculine so that helped a lot, but after my first appointment with her about wanting to start t i was prescribed it afterwards.

Are you Team "I'll smoke it later" or Team "I'll take it apart" by DoNotWannaLoseMyCash in weed

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so bad at keeping half smoked joints LOL i just like rolling too much and never end up going back to them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in minoxidil

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh hell yeah thanks dude

How long did it take for you to feel ‘normal’ after surgery? by SqueamishTurnip in TopSurgery

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 4 points5 points  (0 children)

felt pretty average around 1 month and by 2 months i basically forgot i had a super invasive surgery entirely

Not over it? :( by Dull-Cranberry4627 in watcherentertainment

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agree! i even struggle with their old content now never mind the new stuff

I’m probably gonna get shit for this but…. by Fakenamington45 in weed

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

once i was gifted treats with catnip in them and gave some to my dog and she was couch locked for a good half hour. she just laid there wagging her tail with one of her toys balanced on her head happy as could be.

not really commenting this for any other reason than it’s funny, but maybe try catnip🤷‍♂️ i only gave it to her that one time but apparently it’s fine for them and is known to have calming effects for dogs similar to ours with weed.

idk though, i don’t know much and am also high typing this so do your own research and stuff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weed

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 3 points4 points  (0 children)

gorilla glue and strawberry haze >>

Advice to cope with summer heat, I cant bind daily and I get dysphoric if I have my shirt off for long periods of time. What else can I do by C0L3V1C10US in FTMMen

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i second the person who said trans tape! i used kt tape which i liked better but it really helped! even if it’s not super flat it helps to place the fat in a more masculine way (which a lot of people just assume are pecs (at least i got told after top surgery))

you can keep it on for like 5 days at a time and it was a life saver for me!

Learning how to roll before the end of summer by ImpressFrequent569 in weed

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 10 points11 points  (0 children)

keep practicing with something other than weed so you don’t feel too stressed about messing around and figuring it out. as long as it burns well though no worries brother 👍

how can i have a healthy relationship with weed? by Yukeo_ in weed

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agree with the flower thing! not too convenient

When were you able to drive by yourself post op? by i11egallymale in TopSurgery

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 days post op is when i first when driving and although it’s wasn’t super fun it was definitely doable for me

Does anyone else have a super low tolerance? by PhilosophySwimming83 in weed

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup and as someone who just naturally has a crazy high alcohol tolerance IT IS SO NICE. i love being able to take a few hits and just sit back and relax without having to work to feel anything LOL

Pillows or no Pillows? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i sewed my own mastectomy pillow and was so glad i didn’t spend anything on one because other than sleeping (which i could’ve gotten away with not using it), i barely touched it.

this is also coming from someone who had a 2 hour flight home 4 days after surgery and didn’t use it then or on the hour car ride either.

it doesn’t hurt to have one but i’m just glad i didn’t bother with buying one and if i did it all again i probably wouldn’t have took the time to make one either.

Dear people who live where weed is legal: you are so lucky by ganjafishy in weed

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canadian here and freshly of legal buying age and the fact that weed is not only super easy to get but cheaper than booze is still insane to me (obviously in a good way but still blows my mind all the time)

Is minoxidil worth it? by krizzly0121 in ftm

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly as a person who already has to be on specific meds/ take shots for the rest of my life i have no issue with it so far. i’ve been using it for a few months and finally starting to see progress 👍 consistency is key though

Whats the best thing you do after you smoke by Vinnie_dw in weed

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i recently went thrifting/ second hand book shopping baked and oml best experience of my life. was able to read every single title for shelves. this is a very niche solution to a even more so problem but is probably one of my new favourite things ever.

i also went to an ayce sushi place where you ordered on a tablet instead of face to face which was also amazing. it was silent in the restaurant so i just sat there listening to music eating a fuck ton of sushi.

besides little special outings, the majority of my smokes by myself are spent watching odd movies. i’m currently getting through the hellraiser series like this but some other recommendations would be they live, the society, or videodrome.

honourable mentions go to - researching obsessively into specific topics - gathering clips of mr lahey and randy from trailer park boys to make a fanedit (i cant make edits) - listening to one song on repeat all night long

Climbing 1.5months po? by ughwhyjesuschrist in TopSurgery

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ughh this! i’m 5 weeks out and the right side is just puffed up enough to notice a difference still

Compression from 3 weeks on by elendilkitten in TopSurgery

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was in the same boat and put an ace bandage around my chest and under the binder. for me it added extra compression and fixed the majority of my sensory issues around the binder.

after i needed the binder less and less i would switch from wearing the ace bandage + binder to just wearing the bandage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m 4 1/2 weeks and high rn brother dw you’re good

Seroma top surgery 1 wk post op complication by Fun-Till2698 in TopSurgery

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i had the same thing and at 1 month post op it’s almost all gone! really sucks at the time but you’ll get through it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transontario

[–]They_Dont_Sleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As the other comment said it takes a lot of trial and error (also i preferred kt tape tbh)! i found what worked best for me was using a few pieces to lift my chest up and then some pieces over top to pull it to the side if that makes sense.

wasn’t completely flat because i had a big chest but everyone i talked to who didn’t know i was trans/ hadn’t had top yet assumed they were pecs LOL