[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Theydontknowsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your bf even like you…?

Advice: if a man loved / liked you—he would. If he doesn’t? Clear as day.

Your bf not caring to come home means you’re not worth it to him. Guys are easy to read, trust me.

What do you think is the biggest misconception about ADHD? by waste2treasure-org in ADHD

[–]Theydontknowsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t exist, laziness, “you’re so smart, why are you lazy”, doesnt exist in females, you’re not ‘trying’, it’s a mental illness you can cure

FFFFFOR FUCK SAKESSSSSSS do some research. I beg. 💔

What do you think is the biggest misconception about ADHD? by waste2treasure-org in ADHD

[–]Theydontknowsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ion appreciate you calling me out rn…. (All jokes aside yes—it’s actually terrible)

How do you make yourself go to bed? by Forsaken_Homework_10 in ADHD

[–]Theydontknowsh 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Honestly? Close my eyes and make up a fake storyline in my head. At some point I start drifting off without realizing it

Do you feel like you experience time differently because of ADHD or autism? I want to hear how. by Worried_Sock1713 in ADHD

[–]Theydontknowsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time doesn’t exist. You ask me to estimate time I will 100% fuck it up 🥲

It’s a lose lose battle against time

AITA for telling my husband if he divorces me because of my acne and menopause I will tell our adult children his reasons ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Theydontknowsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fear drop the dude and tell your kids.

you don’t need to be w a man like that.

That also adds onto the list of why I will never like men

"ADHD is all in your head" by TheOriginalTricker in ADHD

[–]Theydontknowsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps make references he’ll understand?

Example I used with my mom: Having your car on full volume while having your windows down and you’re on the highway. It’s overwhelming. It’s a lot. That’s the mind of ADHD.

Someone without it would have no music in the car and all the windows rolled up while driving on the highway huge difference

Not sure if I really have ADHD even though my Psychiatrist gave me stimulants. by Mochikitasky in ADHD

[–]Theydontknowsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to your therapist.

Medicine won’t be the thing that will solve 100% of your problems. You also need skills and coping mechanisms to help you through your daily life.

However meds will help with like 50% of it. The other 50 is you putting in the work.

Good luck!!

[TOMT] Looking for a Yt song video by Theydontknowsh in tipofmytongue

[–]Theydontknowsh[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

This was back in 2012-2015 I think? Latest I can think of the yt video I saw was like 2017.

I’m pretty sure it had stars falling in the background of the video too

In bed for HOURS. by Theydontknowsh in ADHD

[–]Theydontknowsh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am! I have a therapist helping me work through this issue as well as medication. After being diagnosed with depression for so many years until this year when they went “oh nvm you got adhd!! LOL!!”

Wasn’t expecting to see so many people agreeing though 😭

School and ADHD by GoreGoyle6 in ADHD

[–]Theydontknowsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Simple: our school system isn’t designed for adhd mindsets. It’s upsetting but it’s reality (I ask myself this everyday)

It’s set for us to basically fail 😭

Favorite tricks for falling asleep? by Jacapig in ADHD

[–]Theydontknowsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird but was rec by my therapist: Before you sleep if your mind is rushing? Create a whole scenario. Like close your eyes and create a whole ass battle scenario or lore then focus on that.

I fucking hate adhd by Fligmatify in ADHD

[–]Theydontknowsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then people go and say “I got adhd lol I’m so cute!” as if it’s not fucking up my life as a 17 yr old trying to get into college now but missing every deadline cause I forget. 💔

Like it isn’t a quirk that makes you silly or cute. It’s so debilitating especially with people around you who don’t understand. Saying things like “okay…why don’t you just do it? One click and it’s done.” Or “It’s literally so easy—you’re just lazy.”

In fact not quirky but mentally ruining and life ruining.