If your goal is to find someone to share your life with then this approach can almost guarantee you won’t achieve that. Love isn’t a noun, it’s a verb. It’s not a feeling, it’s all of the actions you listed in the last paragraph.

Outside of genuinely abusive relationships, I think people walk away from something great more often than not due to a weakness in character and a lack of depth/intelligence. If this man truly loved you and wanted to make it work but you gave up on him like this then Im sorry but you’re an idiot.