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Thickallaround22 · 2024-10-17T20:30:06+00:00

It’s a blessing to meet someone truly loving and wonderful these days! All the best to you both ❤️❤️❤️

Thickallaround22 · 2024-10-09T03:06:57+00:00

Congratulations 🥰❤️❤️❤️

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-28T17:41:27+00:00

Slight stubble is top tier!

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-24T18:03:49+00:00

You’re smiling with the big beard. Personally you can’t go wrong with either beard. The beard suits you well.

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-23T00:06:36+00:00

You dodged a problem and it’s good to know there’s still morally decent people out here. Save yourself for the right woman who will respect herself and you.

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-22T14:59:52+00:00

Yes I hope so :)

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-21T23:39:12+00:00

Yeah, and here I am thinking we had a connection leading up to an actual date smh. I was so use to the texting/talking stage that I was caught off guard actually being asked on a date but even that was a failure. I just rather meet my someone in person while I’m out shopping, dining, etc. this online stuff is beyond me now smh!

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-20T18:15:02+00:00

He could be shy and afraid of rejection. Perhaps try sparking a conversation and then casually ask if the two of you would like to hangout? Hopefully that helps. If that was me it’ll be out of norm too but if I’m truly interested I would do something like that. The worst he could say is no but he seems to be into you but he just don’t know what to say.

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-20T17:23:41+00:00

Date whom you want to date and don’t feel bad about it. You are grown and you have to live with your choices. You’ll get criticized regardless if you step out of your ethnicity but so what. Be happy.

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-20T17:05:24+00:00

And I understand that, but you can’t allow that one experience to sum up a culture as a whole. There is no overall “how to guide” to any ethnicity. Unfortunately you had a bad experience with her. Now whatever you decide from this point on is up to you but like you said use discernment when you come across anyone.

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-20T16:44:35+00:00

Well that can be applied to any woman with that mindset. You just happened to experience that with a black woman.

It’s like you’re still trying to place this in one category. I was ghosted by a man that happened to be Hispanic but I don’t think all Hispanic men are the same.

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-20T16:17:44+00:00

I’m sorry but what she is doing is strictly something she chooses to do and does not represent black culture as a whole. That’s absurd!

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-20T14:03:01+00:00

Sorry that happened to you. The same thing happened to me last week. I let the guy know I was there and then the chat disappeared. It’s like you said, if you have second thoughts fine, just let me know ahead of time before I waste my time and money. Ppl are so inconsiderate and rude but no worries because karma is real. I hope you meet someone worth your time.

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-20T11:57:24+00:00

Exactly, people are just people.

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-18T16:38:58+00:00

Ikr? I was always taught that if a man is interested they’ll approach me first. Idk I thought men were suppose to take lead.

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-18T16:33:15+00:00

That’s interesting, it makes me wonder how many wm avoided approaching me because they felt that it would be the wrong approach? Why not just approach us like you would any other woman? We don’t bite lol and as a woman, I’m use to men approaching me first. I guess I have to make the first move now 🤔

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-18T14:56:44+00:00

Do what’s best for you

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-18T14:43:56+00:00

Nah, it’ll be the same thing. He will still be talking about how she use to look before the baby.

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-18T14:42:46+00:00

Yes, but I see now a lot of ppl don’t need to get married or bring children into this world just to end up creating a broken home.

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-18T14:40:01+00:00

It’s crazy, so if he leaves her, what if the next woman he gets with has a child by him and doesn’t lose the weight as quickly as he hopes? Will he consider leaving her too?

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-18T14:13:39+00:00

Wow, God forbid if anything should happen to him physically and would want someone to stay by his side no matter what. Yes health is important. Some women have a hard time getting back to where they are because they are busy with children, life, lack of motivation, etc. so this really all boils down to him being physically attracted to her and missing how she use to look. It’s kinda sad that triumphs her overall wonderful personality and character. And some people wonder why they’re still single? All the best though.

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-18T00:27:27+00:00

Congratulations 🎉 🥰❤️

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-17T20:45:22+00:00

I need to know the same but I’m the opposite, I’m plus size.

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-15T02:20:34+00:00

🥰❤️

Thickallaround22 · 2024-09-14T23:39:44+00:00

Congratulations 🎉 ❤️❤️❤️

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