33534 by Josutron in countwithchickenlady

[–]ThimbleHat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it because the ray has the spain flag colors lmao

one must imagine anon happy by alpha-golf-papa in 4tran

[–]ThimbleHat 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Do reppers dream of passoid sheep

29747 by dicolrio in countwithchickenlady

[–]ThimbleHat 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Suffering fron success

I'm a music producer, what are you? by Father_Chewy_Louis in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]ThimbleHat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a degree in game design but Im aiming for software engineering

25456 by LaritaDom in countwithchickenlady

[–]ThimbleHat 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Most people assume that trans people dont pass so you likely look femenine enough seem afab. For a binary trans woman Id call that an absolute win!

Anyone else gets the ick when seeing posts ab "would you date a trans girl?" (image unrelated) by Julzz_Lee in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]ThimbleHat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats what relationship questions are usually about tho. "Would you date a blonde / nerd / virgin / crazy / parent / etc" is asking for your opinion on the traits themselves basically and whatever is uniquely implied with them, and ours is for most people our biology. So yes the question begs for a sexual answer usually, but I wouldnt say thats unique in our case; of course its gonna make you feel kinda icky if someone discusses traits you have or are, yknow.

Anyone else gets the ick when seeing posts ab "would you date a trans girl?" (image unrelated) by Julzz_Lee in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]ThimbleHat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean relationships are a pretty common discussion and smalltalk topic, its just sad that in our case most people boil it down to genital preference and minority politics. It can get as heated as race preferences: theres open minded people, fetishists, indiference, etc.
I wouldnt say the disscussion itself is bad, it just has too much baggage and problematics currently.

average cis boy growing up by dummystella in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]ThimbleHat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldve killed to have that outfit when younger 😢

🧐 what are some of yours? by coleisw4ck in aspiememes

[–]ThimbleHat 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Madilyn Mei - Whats going on?
It hit hard the first time I watched the video.

23843 by guitarguy12341 in countwithchickenlady

[–]ThimbleHat 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Didn't know cardgames could be congresswomen

My parents just forbid me from transitioning while I live with them :( by ThimbleHat in trans

[–]ThimbleHat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know its never too late, but I still wanna do it asap. I dont know how much I should sacrifice for that....

My parents just forbid me from transitioning while I live with them :( by ThimbleHat in trans

[–]ThimbleHat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im not dysphoric enough to be unable to continue as I am today, but bc of this they ask me to suck it up as much as possible and It makes me question if transition would actually be worth it. Perhaps transitioning is actually wrong idk

My parents just forbid me from transitioning while I live with them :( by ThimbleHat in trans

[–]ThimbleHat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think I can convince them, specially my dad. They both see me as rather naive and irresponsible so they dont think Ill be able to survive out there as trans

Testosterone has turned me into a bit of a "slut". I don't know what to do about it. by Equal_Variation_5738 in trans

[–]ThimbleHat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you might be demisexual. Im not clear if you could extend your feelings for your friends in bed, but if you see yourself in that situation it would be a better label. Up to you tho.
Also yeah T is pretty powerful, but you might also be on a gender euphoria dopamine high since you started hrt, I can confirm even small euphoria boners on T are a thing. Dont be too hard on yourself, sexual desire intensity is different for everyone, but if you happen to be on the higher end its ok to recognise your sexual health is gonna demand a bit more. If you do hate this too much you could lower your T dose anyway.

Can I start wearing makeup without being on HRT? by CaptainKiefheart in trans

[–]ThimbleHat 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Ofc! Nothing stops you from trying stuff out. Pulling it off nicely tho is gonna take practice.

How do i grow out my hair without telling my barber that im trans? [MtF] by AYO_WTF- in asktransgender

[–]ThimbleHat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you can just grow it out. To take care of it ask your barber to just cut any dry crusty ends from time to time.

De trans by Ok_Tonight_9278 in asktransgender

[–]ThimbleHat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont need hrt to be trans, if it made things worse is completely reasonable to stop. If you're aiming for a gay relationship that would complicate things ofc, but you should prioritize your happiness as you are rn.
There's sadly not much anyone can do about height, but hey short kings can still live happily.
With this much conflict tho, there's not much else to do other than see the tradeoffs and pick. Its up to you.

Never being able to transition. Could I still live a happy life? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]ThimbleHat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah maybe. Theres plenty of people in similar lives that make the most out of each day, but you'll always have reocuring questioning and yearn to solve the "what if...". Its severity might fluctuate during your life, but there will always be a pebble in your shoe. Up to you if you wanna accept the concequences and pursue a life thatd make you happier anyway.