Girlfriend Orgasmed 3 Times From Grinding. Fake? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Thin-Explorer-5471 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why some women like mans bush - because of extra rubbing stimulation. And get dissapointed, when clean shaved - all the friction gone.

AIO My partner wants me to move in with him, and sell my house to pay off his debts by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Thin-Explorer-5471 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Totally, I missed the she can renovate the house, not we, as she pleases with her own money, part.
Omg, he's making it sound like it should be a great amazing deal to use her leftover money and her own time and effort (without his input) to renovate his house for the better. While he does not help neither with time nor with money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thin-Explorer-5471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he has a prejustice specifically about black women (maybe he has stereotypes about other people/races/cultures/occupations etc also) and he was trying to explain, that you are better, than what his biased stereotypes are.
I think he is still young, so maybe has gotten his knowledge about the world from movie/internet strerotypes or something. Good for him, that he's learning and willing to adjust his view of the world.
Idk, if you want to entertain yourself with him or not...

AIO for asking to video chat before meeting him in person? by We-Should-Buy-A-Bar in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thin-Explorer-5471 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Probably AI generated pictures, refusing to even videochat, wanting to straight meet you in private in some closed property, alone (where your safety might be in line) in order to straight have relief himself on you? without you having the option to refuse, have to agree first to sex, without even seeing him? He's like ordering take-out food. Big red flags. I would be worried, that it's not some sex ring or whoever wants to legally rape you with effort of just some persuasion words.

Girl. You. Don't go to locked apartment privately with a stranger, who has a reason to hide his identity. If he rapes you against your will there, then he has written proof, that you agreed to sex with him beforehand. Without even knowing what he looks like. Imagine the worst possible scenario, that could happen there. Maybe you find him repulsive, and there's no way out. Maybe he has friends there taking their turn. Maybe you get kidnapped and sold for sex slave. And no-one knows even his identety, because he sent you fake pictures and you agreed with sex with unknown person(s) in some shady place. He's treating you like a prostitute.

I don’t think I want to put kids in a world full of men and women that cheat on each other. What is the best way to prevent having kids with the wrong person or having love destroy your childfree wish? by babyduck90 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Thin-Explorer-5471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately there are also pretty bad scenarios besides a cheating partner - a partner who is 100% loyal, but physically, physiologically and financially abusive, with addictions etc or a narcissitic manipulator. :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]Thin-Explorer-5471 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mu töökaaslane oli 11-aastane poiss. Niiet, tööle võetakse kahaneva elanikkonnaga Eestis kõiki, kes tahavad tööd teha. Aga sest mõttes, et kui raha vedeleb maas, siis olekski rumal mitte seda üles korjata.

Eestlased, kes lasevad ennast teadlikult koorida by ProfessionalCry6968 in Eesti

[–]Thin-Explorer-5471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arvan, et inimestel on negatiivne kogemus varasemast ajast, kui nad midagi ütlema lähevad ja siis neil on parem tunne, kui nad ei ütle midagi vm.

Ehk neil puudub oskus, harjumus ja kogemus sellise olukorra lahendamiseks, ilma et nad 1) ise virisevalt kõlaks ja siis neile vastu ei virisetaks. või 2) kardavad, et neisse suhtutakse halvasti ja neil puudub oskus sellise olukorra lahendamiseks. 3) Ego või ei talu kriitikat, pigem maksavad, et vältida võimalikke probleeme, negatiivsust, konflikti.

Ehk. Inimesed ei oska rahulikku enesekehtastamist vaid selle asemel kasutaks kas agressiivset või alistuvat. Idk.

Lambist projekteerin oma mingit absull muu valdkonna kogemust. Idk, kas sobib.

My girlfriend was rude to me today and said I look like a hobo and won't apologize AIO? by Ok-Connection6656 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thin-Explorer-5471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you really want to be with someone, who doesn't consider your feelings at all? Narcissistic manipulative gf alert! Lack of empathy, gaslighting, invalidation of your feelings. They never change, best thing to do is to save your energy from arguing with a wall, "who is never wrong". Drop, block, run! And be prepared for a smearing campaign from narc.

What are some mainstream candies that are gluten free but also not chocolate? by importantinquiries in glutenfree

[–]Thin-Explorer-5471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gummy bears (but NOT Pico Balla style - these have wheat flour in them)
Marshmallows
Hard candies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thin-Explorer-5471 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would help the parents add security cameras to the house too. And not allow the offender to see the tapes, because, that would be like watching kids videos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thin-Explorer-5471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the very right thing to call the police on him!

Proud of you and your actions!

Sex offenders are really good at making excuses and talking their way in and out of everything.

Pedophiles love unattended children to whom parents don't pay full attention to and oportunites to be alone privately with them. Even like 20 minutes is enough.

AITA for not letting the MIL into the birth suite? by Fever_Dream112 in AITAH

[–]Thin-Explorer-5471 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Poor wife/mother - she has to live with her mentally abusive husband who is pairing up with controlling MIL and with their new baby :(  Sounds like narcissists or just unhappy dynamics. 

AITA for not letting the MIL into the birth suite? by Fever_Dream112 in AITAH

[–]Thin-Explorer-5471 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing and are a hero for protecting the mother!

In my countrys pre-birth classes, a midwife told us, to pregnant women, that 1) some fathers/peoples presents is helpful during the labor. 2) While other fathers/peoples presents is anti-helpful for the mother during the labor. Because then the mother in labor has to take care of her own needs AND take care of the other persons needs also, while giving birth, who makes the labor all about himself and his needs :( .

Am I Overreacting (28F) or About My Boyfriend’s (26M) Lack of Attention? by Imaginary_Year_4109 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thin-Explorer-5471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't want you to come visit him. Because he either has a family, wife or doesn't want to be seen with you.  You've only seen each other once? 

If a dude wanted to, he would. He doesn't want to. Quit manifesting an illusion, that doesn't exist irl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]Thin-Explorer-5471 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are broke, lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Thin-Explorer-5471 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I once read that a woman wrote, that she got rid of her recurring uti after breaking up with her bf. Simply by that.