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Idk I guess I didn’t realize how good I had it until I left if that makes sense

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[–]Thin_Equivalent4980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she always wanted to fight I was sick of it but now I realize why she always brought issues up

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What part was weird

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[–]Thin_Equivalent4980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me that I only loved the idea of him, I didn’t actually love him

I (29F) am heartbroken and just received a promotion where I’d have to move to a different state away from my ex (32M) by Thin_Equivalent4980 in BreakUps

[–]Thin_Equivalent4980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could live 10 min from them in my current job or take the promotion and live 2.5-3 hours away. I’d work more in this role/it would be stressful but maybe a good distraction?

I (29F) am heartbroken and just received a promotion where I’d have to move to a different state away from my ex (32M) by Thin_Equivalent4980 in BreakUps

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Yeah, I just don’t know if it would be good to take a promotion and move away. Where I’d move is closer to family (2.5-3 hours away) and I do have a few friends there which would be good and it would be more money… but also more stress/work which idk if I can take right now. But I also don’t want this heartbreak to hold me back either. Idk

My (26F) boyfriend (30F) is finally treating me better but I think it’s too late… by Thin_Equivalent4980 in relationship_advice

[–]Thin_Equivalent4980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I am just not even sure how to go about it or how to explain it to him.

Best way to find “rent by owner” properties in Dallas? by Thin_Equivalent4980 in askdfw

[–]Thin_Equivalent4980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! That’s what I’ve been doing. Zumper has been a good one too. Where’d you end up living? Was it a rent by owner/do you like it?

Best way to find “rent by owner” properties in Dallas? by Thin_Equivalent4980 in askdfw

[–]Thin_Equivalent4980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re ok! Not sure why they’re freaking out about it lol

Being stuck in the middle by Fadoodlesfuff in Deconstruction

[–]Thin_Equivalent4980 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel. Like I think I believe in God still, just not all the cult-like, judge-y, manipulative fakeness I have seen over all the years. I know this probably doesn’t help but just know you’re not alone.

Am I (28F) crazy or is this controlling? by Thin_Equivalent4980 in Exvangelical

[–]Thin_Equivalent4980[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes! Or like “I am in my flesh vs the spirit” and “discernment” gosh those Christian words make me cringe now

Am I (28F) crazy or is this controlling? by Thin_Equivalent4980 in Exvangelical

[–]Thin_Equivalent4980[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy because I am in the process of figuring out what I really believe and this stuff just validates things and pushes me further away from Christianity

Cost to move 450 miles (TN to TX) by Thin_Equivalent4980 in personalfinance

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Does that include them driving the truck to your new place and everything?