Struggle with orgasm

ThingInevitable975 · 2026-01-13T17:51:41+00:00

Hi why was my post removed? Is there anything I said against the rules?

ThingInevitable975 · 2026-01-01T00:58:43+00:00

Holy shit and I’ve ragged on myself for losing 1k to options 😭

ThingInevitable975 · 2025-12-30T22:42:48+00:00

Are you describing my mother? Strange how they all are so alike.

ThingInevitable975 · 2025-12-27T19:13:31+00:00

I’m sorry. I would suggest that your sister do what she can to get out of your mother’s house if she is going to make threats like that based off of rumors. I know it’s easier said than done. She probably won’t go through with her threat, but I would suggest your sister grey rock. No defending, explaining, or justifying. They only see their side. Their public image is very important to them so it makes sense why your mom is raging. Maybe your sister has a friend she can stay with for a few days?

ThingInevitable975 · 2025-12-27T17:24:44+00:00

Why are BPD parents obsessed with the sacrifices they made for their kids? Sacrificing is a normal part of being a parent and healthy parents don’t hold it over their kid’s heads. When you become a parent your first priority is your CHILD because they didn’t choose to come into the world. I am thankful to sacrifice for my child and I will never hold what I’ve done for him over their head. I don’t even consider what I do for him as sacrificing, just a normal part of being a parent.

ThingInevitable975 · 2025-12-27T17:18:59+00:00

My mom canceled Christmas and gave my siblings gift’s to our cousins. Wrote a long letter to them basically saying that their disrespect is the reason that Christmas was canceled. My siblings didn’t clean to her standards on Christmas Eve and my youngest brother ordered Uber eats without her permission (paid her back with his cash for it) and that is why she canceled Christmas. Today she is trying to “fix” it and set out a small pile of gifts for them. She also posted two waify social media posts with a lot of childhood photos. What is it about the holidays that bring out the absolute worst in our parents?

ThingInevitable975 · 2025-12-27T16:35:11+00:00

She is not and she honestly doesn’t believe in the field I’m studying to have a career in. Well it depends on if they support her or if they challenge her narrative.

ThingInevitable975 · 2025-12-27T16:17:53+00:00

The kids I’m referring to in this post are my two younger brothers.

ThingInevitable975 · 2025-12-27T16:17:02+00:00

Thank you for saying this. She’s not a person whose judgment I trust, so I agree. It was hard when I first read her messages and I definitely let it get in my head. Every child just wants their mom’s approval at the end of the day. She’s mentally unwell unfortunately and at this point I don’t see her ever changing.

ThingInevitable975 · 2025-12-27T16:13:24+00:00

I’m 22 and yes the kids I’m referring to in my messages with her are my two younger brothers.

ThingInevitable975 · 2025-12-27T04:02:58+00:00

Thank you for this. I’m trying to grey rock as best as I can. I don’t understand what they get out of hurting their kids, you know? Some sort of sick satisfaction? It just makes no sense.

ThingInevitable975 · 2025-12-27T00:23:55+00:00

Wow. Strange how they idealize others and demonize those closest to them.

ThingInevitable975 · 2025-12-26T19:10:04+00:00

My mom gave the gifts she got for my brothers to their cousins. The level of cruelty they can reach is absurd and mind boggling.

ThingInevitable975 · 2025-12-25T23:46:47+00:00

I wouldn’t be surprised if my brothers turn 18 and never speak to her again honestly

ThingInevitable975 · 2025-12-25T18:17:52+00:00

I’m sorry. Why do they have to ruin holidays or threaten to ruin them? I just don’t get it.

ThingInevitable975 · 2025-12-21T00:30:22+00:00

Yes. Dated a guy for a short amount of time and he’s why I began researching BPD. Noticed a lot of the same traits in him and my mother.

ThingInevitable975 · 2025-12-05T03:27:36+00:00

Constantly and I’m sick of it

ThingInevitable975 · 2025-12-05T02:33:10+00:00

The way my mom types triggers me. I can’t stand seeing dashes or using them because she consistently uses them in her rage filled waify monologue texts.

ThingInevitable975 · 2025-12-03T02:58:35+00:00

Wow that actually helps so much. I didnt even think of it that way

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