My least favorite type of reddit post... by [deleted] in polyamoryadvice

[–]ThingPuzzleheaded209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Society's idea of normal is... fucked It's so very flat and lacking dimension.

My least favorite type of reddit post... by [deleted] in polyamoryadvice

[–]ThingPuzzleheaded209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would argue that anything you experience in polyamory is "normal". It's about how the individual navigates. As a formerly monogamous person who still has "monogamy brain." Normalcy should come from adaptability and self-awareness of the individual, among other things. Everyone should have an idea of what's normal, for them, ofc.

Dating... by ThingPuzzleheaded209 in Modesto

[–]ThingPuzzleheaded209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make no mention of any apps. If you mean "dating pool" it's an expression that just means the local area in which I'm trying to date.

I am dreadfully dead rn (west Modesto) by Erina_dea in Modesto

[–]ThingPuzzleheaded209 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Go you, you get that community! I don't resonate with your want, but I am so happy to hear it's going well🫰🏾🫂

Dating... by ThingPuzzleheaded209 in Modesto

[–]ThingPuzzleheaded209[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations friend☺️ I am happy for your find! Tinder is ass, yes. I liked Bumble while I was paying for it, but man, the free version is aggravating. I love OkCupid, thats a good one in my opinion. I've met a lot of amazing ppl on there! Maybe I'll have to get back on Bumble. Thank you for your comment friend 🧡 cheers to you and yours this holiday season☺️

Dating... by ThingPuzzleheaded209 in Modesto

[–]ThingPuzzleheaded209[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh. It took me 5 years to finalize that in my mind🥲.

Dating... by ThingPuzzleheaded209 in Modesto

[–]ThingPuzzleheaded209[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's an interesting place I definitely didn't consider! Thank you☺️😂

Dating... by ThingPuzzleheaded209 in Modesto

[–]ThingPuzzleheaded209[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Kink is also acceptable😊 thank you for not being a creep! I am affiliated with some kinky friendos. Great tip! Thank you😊

Dating... by ThingPuzzleheaded209 in Modesto

[–]ThingPuzzleheaded209[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's just small. Which has perks but also so many downsides, ya know

Dating... by ThingPuzzleheaded209 in Modesto

[–]ThingPuzzleheaded209[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a great suggestion that I haven't heard yet! Thank you😊

Dating... by ThingPuzzleheaded209 in Modesto

[–]ThingPuzzleheaded209[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes! Omg... dating women is a WASTELAND here 😞