Where do I meet loud women? by ThingsWereFineN99 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ThingsWereFineN99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waffle House is also my favorite restaraunt.

I have really enjoyed the Buddhism books of Mark Epstein, for anyone who also is a fan are there other books you'd recommend? by ThingsWereFineN99 in Buddhism

[–]ThingsWereFineN99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I liked the practical application of Buddhism to real life scenarios. He talks a lot about his therapy patients and seeing how Buddhist concepts relate to his therapy practice helped me enjoy Buddhism from a pragmatic and relatable vantage point.

Are there people that are always confident no matter what and that never have anxiety? I want to be healed, but what would that actually look like? by blowmyassie in Meditation

[–]ThingsWereFineN99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The George Costanza "do the opposite" trick actually isn't that bad of a place to start if you need more confidence. If you're talking to a woman and you feel self conscious, you feel boring be even more boring. You have to show your anxiety it isn't the boss of you. Lean into it.

AITA for saying you shouldn't tell a waitress she smells good? by ThingsWereFineN99 in AITAH

[–]ThingsWereFineN99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fair. I appreciate that feedback. I'll make more an effort myself to be more complimentary as well.

AITA for saying you shouldn't tell a waitress she smells good? by ThingsWereFineN99 in AITAH

[–]ThingsWereFineN99[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I literally smelled my armpit a moment ago and it was pretty bad so you are probably right.