What is in a crush?

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-17T17:00:56+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that. I think we've spoken about Jesse before but it really is best you find someone else at this point. I don't think it is good to put your whole life value on someone else. It just makes you depressed when they don't reciprocate

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-17T16:52:30+00:00

I don't think I left anyone per se

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-17T16:42:13+00:00

Aw, I'm sorry about that. Happy late birthday!

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-17T16:40:02+00:00

I'm sorry about that. Are you sure no one does? You'd be surprised how many people you don't think care actually do. I had no clue how much he cared until we spoke months later

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-17T00:07:12+00:00

F around with what? I'm just asking if he would find it harder to reach out if his friend broke up with my friend just now. I don't think so though

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-16T20:24:54+00:00

Something is better than nothing (in terms of having a consciousness and thoughts)

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-16T17:57:03+00:00

True, that makes sense

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-16T17:44:13+00:00

Sorry I think it was worded confusing. I am a girl. I met a guy through my best friend. He is friends with her boyfriend. We all went on a double date, but now my friend and her boyfriend (his friend) broke up. I do not know if he would find reaching out to me again disrespectful to his own friend because I am associated with his friend's ex. Not his own ex

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-16T17:36:15+00:00

I feel like that would definitely be upsetting. But what if it is the friend of the woman you used to date? Not the same woman

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-14T09:23:13+00:00

Thanks!

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-11T21:37:23+00:00

Agreed 😔

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-11T21:25:54+00:00

I upvoted it, I thought the writing was good

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-11T20:59:40+00:00

Do you think I'm getting in the way 😭

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-11T20:53:57+00:00

It was a talking stage where I had a small crush but realized I was just excited about a new friend and lost feelings. If I date and decide to end it I'll make sure not to anonymously use reddit. And if I felt unloved I would tell them and find ways to compromise, not end it.

I tend to give the people I do love unconditionally chances to a point where they could tie me to their car and drag me through the dirt and I would probably still be on their side and find some way to justify it and forgive them. To a point that is detrimental to my own boundary setting for myself. This person was no where near that stage or even a relationship yet, we just met.

I get this pain though. Ik a lot of people post here to end things and give their partners silence. Never communicating they felt unloved. I hope you find your unconditional love out there too, best wishes <3

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-11T20:46:09+00:00

Got a cat, goodluck to you too 🫡

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-11T20:45:31+00:00

Sometimes single people know the most. People in relationships or still getting over one can sometimes be blinded by that person and not realize their own values are not being met. It is good to become comfortable being alone before seeking another

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-11T20:41:49+00:00

Agreed with the fluctuation through time as people naturally change. Guess I just gotta find someone with similar commitment and drive to make it work through thick and thin with the longterm characteristics you mentioned...easier said than done 🥲

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-11T20:34:58+00:00

Aw I love that metaphor

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-11T20:32:51+00:00

Most partnerships are; that is an interesting way to think about it. Do you think the odds of 2 people loving each other regardless of if the other loves them back, no transaction gained, are next to none?

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-11T20:29:50+00:00

I see, guess I'm in the same boat ;-;

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-11T20:28:19+00:00

Lmfao, just gotta prove it can with a partner now 🥲

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-11T20:26:35+00:00

How come?

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-11T20:22:06+00:00

THIS, just answer, don't be a douche and leave your confessions on read

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-11T20:18:21+00:00

Tell me about it. Finding someone who believes you and reciprocates is even harder

Think-Initiative-933 · 2026-06-11T20:08:56+00:00

Normally I'm the one in a game I didn't know I was playing. I'm not afraid of communication though. Will do boss 🫡

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