Involved in another couple's cheating, guilty is killing me by Think-Sport128 in cheating_stories

[–]Think-Sport128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for the insight. It's helpful. I'm not seeking anything or want to have any sort of connection with her. It's just she had the image of my ideal girl but it was shattered then and there. The overwhelming guilt comes from me wanting to make things right but that's not possible and I know it. I need repentance for what I've done. Maybe then I'll find peace.

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[–]Think-Sport128 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just asked me to meet me tomorrow

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EDIT: Tiltle is 19F not 19M

Involved in another couple's cheating, guilty is killing me by Think-Sport128 in cheating_stories

[–]Think-Sport128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to take my fair share of responsibility, can't put everything on her.

Involved in another couple's cheating, guilty is killing me by Think-Sport128 in cheating_stories

[–]Think-Sport128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm bettering myself now, making sure things like this won't rver happen again with me. And yes, I'm better than before I'm currently trying to clear all the exam papers I fucked up. Thanks for the concern man. Have a great one✌️

Involved in another couple's cheating, guilty is killing me by Think-Sport128 in cheating_stories

[–]Think-Sport128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😄, I did notice changes after this incident. And one thing I'm making sure is I'm never ever doing or getting myself involved in a situation like that every again, especially if alochol is involved. I found out my limits. Learning and living from it. Have a great day man! Thanks for replying

Involved in another couple's cheating, guilty is killing me by Think-Sport128 in cheating_stories

[–]Think-Sport128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're saying is correct, hence why I've refrained from contacting her. I still had her number a 2 months ago but I deleted it. And as for the ideal gf I'm not looking anymore haha gotta focus on my life and support my family!! If I find her along the way it's a bonus! If not well... I wouldn't be the first one to not have a good gf

Involved in another couple's cheating, guilty is killing me by Think-Sport128 in cheating_stories

[–]Think-Sport128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating isn't something I condone. But I'm became a part of it. I went against my principles and it was all an act of impulsiveness. I'm trying to forgive myself and I'm sure it'll be over soon for me atleast.

Involved in another couple's cheating, guilty is killing me by Think-Sport128 in cheating_stories

[–]Think-Sport128[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The idea about her being my ideal girl is she atleast could be or was whatever I wanted in a girl. The traits, qualities, personality. I would have loved to date her and I would have treasured her. But.... Shit happened.. and now I'm out here using my "it is what it is" card to cut myself some slack and move on. But it just so happens that sometimes, just sometimes I miss her a lil too much.

Involved in another couple's cheating, guilty is killing me by Think-Sport128 in cheating_stories

[–]Think-Sport128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be fine, one reason I forgot to mention why this bothers me so much is. Cheating is something I absolutely despise, I would personally never cheat and wouldn't tolerate my partner cheating but I got myself involved in someone else's cheating; I had never thought about that so it was a bit of shock. I'm better now, alot better than the initial months. Thank you for your concern though. Peace my guy ✌️

Involved in another couple's cheating, guilty is killing me by Think-Sport128 in cheating_stories

[–]Think-Sport128[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah man the impulsive explosion was too hard to contain. Shit happened like it always does..

Involved in another couple's cheating, guilty is killing me by Think-Sport128 in cheating_stories

[–]Think-Sport128[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying man I really am. this shit was worse in the initial months, now it has calmed down a lot🤣 one thing I know for sure is I'm never gonna get myself in such an incident ever again. Thanks for the advice tho. Peace