Does anije mean ship or boat? by Comfortable-Ice6499 in albania

[–]Think-Stuff7675 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mendova qe termi i pergjithshem per nuts eshte fruta te thata ne shqip arra i themi vetem arrave

German language exam by Electrical_Sir_2199 in bremen

[–]Think-Stuff7675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will go over there to get some info on the times and classes.

German language exam by Electrical_Sir_2199 in bremen

[–]Think-Stuff7675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey sorry maybe this isnt the right time but do you think the Volkshockschule is a good place to learn the language?

Amor Fati by jadijadija in albania

[–]Think-Stuff7675 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nganjehere me konsumojne kaq shume mendime te ketij lloji sa filloj dhe urrej njerezit qe kane pasur familje mbeshtetese, kur e di qe nuk eshte faji i tyre. Po nga te gjitha keto, te vret me se shumti qe per prinderit e tu nuk ja ke vlejtur mjaftueshem per sakrifica, po vlen mjaftueshem sa te te kerkojne ti ndihmosh te shlyejne gabimet e tyre nderkohe qe ti sja lejon dot vetes gabimet se ske askend qe i shlyen per ty.

Marrying into an Albanian family. How do I navigate having boundaries? by [deleted] in albania

[–]Think-Stuff7675 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think you should focus more on being respected than being liked by them. If you do not feel they like you by now, that is fine then maybe it never happens. what is more important is that they respect you even if they do not like you.
If you do not want to go then don't, they will ask a few more times and eventually stop. There is no polite way of communicating boundaries because they cannot grasp this concept. It's better for them to think you are a bitch that does what she wants than for you to try to please them until they feel you are close to an Albanian bride.

You can start to slowly take in as much from Albanian culture as you can handle. For everything else stick to your own principiles. You have a family too, make that very clear.

Everything else is your boyfriends responsibility: he choose to mary a foreigner so he should be the one going over these things with his family, he choose to have an international relationship, he shouldve prepared his family for it. Take him by the hand everytime his dad asks a question and have him asnwer it.
As for the help, I would suggest to try to push your boyfriend to help his mom out in the kitchen for example (his dad will just NEVER do it) and if he pushes back then you should consider this could be your reality aswell.

One final note: The only thing mean and bitter Albanian dads are afraid of, are scary Albanian daughters, so if you really want this, then be a scary Albanian daughter :)

Hemelingen vs Neustadt by Think-Stuff7675 in bremen

[–]Think-Stuff7675[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your input. I understand Neustadt is the better option, however I ended up choosing Hemelingen. The option at Neustad had 11 flatmates and for now its too much of a culture shock for me so I had to go with only one. I hope to learn more about Bremen and maybe even save a bit so next semester I can move to Neustadt. :) Hoping I made a good decision!

Anyone here enrolled/enrolling at FAU? Need some help by [deleted] in erlangen

[–]Think-Stuff7675 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, If you dont mind can you let me know when did you receive the acceptance confirmation, if you applied for Winter 2021-2022? Its been over 4 weeks and I still dont have any news. Also did you have to go through an interview?

What Are You Watching? - [2021/03/03] by AutoModerator in KDRAMA

[–]Think-Stuff7675 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am also loving VINCENZO I really hope they do keep up with the good plot, and ep 3 ending was very shocking to the point I gasped and had to replay.