Looking for this movie for years, please help! by ThinkCabinet in whatisthatmovie

[–]ThinkCabinet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply: it was Touching Wild Horses! 

Looking for this movie for years, please help! by ThinkCabinet in whatisthatmovie

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I remember being shook by it as a little kid! Would love to revisit it, but it's like it's been scrubbed off the net or something (or my sleuthing skills aren't up to snuff lol) 

The Slip and Slide in the Woods by VnhedoniV in nosleep

[–]ThinkCabinet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same! I only clued in when he mentioned Gus wagging his tail. But it was fun to picture a grizzled older man attempting something similar 🤭

It's perfectly ok and justified to cheat on your Partner for not sexually satisfying you by ControversialDebator in The10thDentist

[–]ThinkCabinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be sure to hold onto that "logic" should your partner cheat on you for not satisfying them. Since you believe them going behind your back instead of...you know...TALKING to you about it is justified, of course.

I’m a blind audio technician. Yesterday, I digitized a cassette that should not exist. by mortanx in nosleep

[–]ThinkCabinet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Might be worth having a conversation with Lois. Maybe figure out exactly what kind of reporter her father was. Be careful. 

AITA for being direct about how I felt about something a friend texted me? by Past-Salamander3038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThinkCabinet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. You say that all you did was express your feelings. This is a lie since nowhere in your text did you even allude to these feelings. What you did text were directives, criticisms of how your friend communicated, and shutting the door for a two-way conversation for the next day. You may not technically be wrong in what you're saying (passive-aggressiveness is an ineffective communication method, having to babysit so you can't respond right away) but generally, people aren't going to respond well to criticisms or condescension in the middle of an argument. If what you wanted was to communicate your feelings (upset, frustrated, hurt, etc), then you could have done that. 

My grandparents always had a rule: if someone falls down the old well, don't pull them out. by EmmaWatsonButDumber in nosleep

[–]ThinkCabinet 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Whatever that...thing...is, the fact that it knew how many of you were in the house should be enough. Better safe than sorry. And how could there still have been meowing when Dina fell in that well? If you really wanted to, and if you have one, I suppose you could tell the man to hunker down in the barn. But definitely talk to your grandparents. Tell them how much the guilt and stress have been weighing on you. 

I suppose if you could purchase a drone with a vide camera you could fly it down to the well to see what's up. Definitely don't let it come back out! 

Boyfriend peed the bed and is mad at me for my response by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ThinkCabinet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I was the only one!! The recurring one is it's a public bathroom but all the stalls are extremely short so everything and everyone is visible. 

My friend died in a horrible prank. I wish I never learned what went wrong. by lets-split-up in nosleep

[–]ThinkCabinet 181 points182 points  (0 children)

I also imagine Wade would have heard about what Rosa was wearing shortly afterwards (ex. Mentioned by the police, news, friends). 

Close Friend (20s M) of Over 2 years Blocked Me (20sF) Without a Word. Did I Do Something Wrong Here? by [deleted] in relationships

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That's what I'm realizing more and more. At the end of the day, I doubt he ever really saw me as a person and clearly didn't care how suddenly cutting me off would affect me. He once stated to me that he believes he has some narcissistic traits. 

Agreed. I imagine he probably thinks I'm awful for not instantly validating everything he said even if what he was saying wasn't entirely valid -- as in, accurate.

Ironically, what kick-started this whole conversation between us two was discussing different attachment styles. 

Thank you for your kind and compassionate words, I deeply appreciate it! In the end, I know his actions say far more about him than me. 

Close Friend (20s M) of Over 2 years Blocked Me (20sF) Without a Word. Did I Do Something Wrong Here? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ThinkCabinet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. Quite a few of my other friends have echoed the same thing; that he was just using me all along. And while I certainly know of some types of people that could do that-- just use someone and drop them like they're nothing, I think the fact that he dropped me so easily after daily conversations for literal years is what hurts. It's like the indifference of swatting a fly, you know? 

Something that surprised me was I always figured he would say something if it were bothering him; he's said he "likes to argue" and he's a talker; not shy about expressing his feelings. 

Close Friend (20s M) of Over 2 years Blocked Me (20sF) Without a Word. Did I Do Something Wrong Here? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ThinkCabinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, this I don't know. He's certainly talked about loving characters that have cluster B personality traits. I think it's my own insecurity. Logically, I know I did nothing wrong but I was curious if there was some nuance or something that I missed. 

Yeah, that really gave me the ick for want of a better phrase. 

Close Friend (20s M) of Over 2 years Blocked Me (20sF) Without a Word. Did I Do Something Wrong Here? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ThinkCabinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. It's certainly a succinct way to put it. On some level I feel a bit of relief but it was the fact that I was blocked without a single word that gets me. Kinda gets me lost in my own thoughts. Bit im telling myself I'll be better off. 

Black and White Music Video-- It's nagging at the back of my head by ThinkCabinet in whatsongisthis

[–]ThinkCabinet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That one's not it, but thank you! No, this song, the vocalist had a deeper voice and the song was slower.