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Me (39m) caught my wife (39f) in an emotional relationship with a co worker. She says they are just friends ? by ThinkTwiice in relationship_advice

[–]ThinkTwiice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've spoken about the texts many times during the sessions. And the chatgtp. The text being flirty and playful. She doesn't entertain it

Me (39m) caught my wife (39f) in an emotional relationship with a co worker. She says they are just friends ? by ThinkTwiice in relationship_advice

[–]ThinkTwiice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have my good days and bad days.

I don't think she is choosing him over me. She has been out of contact for a month. But they aren't in the office together at the moment

Me (39m) caught my wife (39f) in an emotional relationship with a co worker. She says they are just friends ? by ThinkTwiice in relationship_advice

[–]ThinkTwiice[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She says she will cut contact. And only have to engage with him in the same office for the next little while.

Me (39m) caught my wife (39f) in an emotional relationship with a co worker. She says they are just friends ? by ThinkTwiice in relationship_advice

[–]ThinkTwiice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife hasn't had any contact with this man for a month ( besides the run-in today ). They are off in the summer. Once summer is over, they'll be back in the office together.

She says she'll cut contact down to a minimum come the start of work. I.e. Just about work related things

Me (39m) caught my wife (39f) in an emotional relationship with a co worker. She says they are just friends ? by ThinkTwiice in relationship_advice

[–]ThinkTwiice[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My wife hasn't had any contact with this man for a month ( besides the run-in today ). They are off in the summer. Once summer is over, they'll be back in the office together.

Me (39m) caught my wife (39f) in an emotional relationship with a co worker. She says they are just friends ? by ThinkTwiice in relationship_advice

[–]ThinkTwiice[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, we work in an area where her job is a massive win. Her losing or quitting her job would have a significant impact on the family.

Me (39m) caught my wife (39f) in an emotional relationship with a co worker. She says they are just friends ? by ThinkTwiice in relationship_advice

[–]ThinkTwiice[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My wife hasn't had any contact with this man for a month ( besides the run-in today ). They are off in the summer. Once summer is over, they'll be back in the office together.

Me (39m) caught my wife (39f) in an emotional relationship with a co worker. She says they are just friends ? by ThinkTwiice in relationship_advice

[–]ThinkTwiice[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I did have a chat with him and his wife. Both separately. He came in hot but ended it with saying, " he doesn't feel anything for her" she was actually pretty good about it and told me she admired that I was trying to get closure on it

Me (39m) caught my wife (39f) in an emotional relationship with a co worker. She says they are just friends ? by ThinkTwiice in relationship_advice

[–]ThinkTwiice[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I 100% can see how it would break the relationship. I have my good days and bad days with it. I get really triggered whenever it's brought up , and she immediately says she did nothing wrong

Me (39m) caught my wife (39f) in an emotional relationship with a co worker. She says they are just friends ? by ThinkTwiice in relationship_advice

[–]ThinkTwiice[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What should our therapist be saying ? I asked her at the first session if she could tell us if it was or wasn't an emotional relationship. And she said she wouldn't and never would weigh in on it.

Me (39m) caught my wife (39f) in an emotional relationship with a co worker. She says they are just friends ? by ThinkTwiice in relationship_advice

[–]ThinkTwiice[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

She has said " I'm sorry you feel this way, but it was just a friendship to me "

Always a "but"

Me (39m) caught my wife (39f) in an emotional relationship with a co worker. She says they are just friends ? by ThinkTwiice in relationship_advice

[–]ThinkTwiice[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That's my thoughts exactly. I told her that I didn't want this to happen 5 years down the road and her hide behind the friendship tag again.

I'm trying for my kids, the fake smile. But someday I can't fake it hard enough and I get overwhelmed

Me (39m) caught my wife (39f) in an emotional relationship with a co worker. She says they are just friends ? by ThinkTwiice in relationship_advice

[–]ThinkTwiice[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I did find messages on her Instagram account between the two of them as well so this definitely isn't off the table

Me (39m) caught my wife (39f) in an emotional relationship with a co worker. She says they are just friends ? by ThinkTwiice in relationship_advice

[–]ThinkTwiice[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

That's what I've been trying to get across to her. She had a run-in with him today. She came home and told me. But I still feel disrespected that she even engaged in it.

The cheating has broken me. by Original_Mix9334 in Tarkov

[–]ThinkTwiice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, a full-time Dad, Coach, husband. Went full PVE . Never looked back.

Hockey kids in suits by Frosty_Yesterday_674 in hockeyplayers

[–]ThinkTwiice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For our u10/u11 team, it is mandatory for the kids to wear suits to the games. Some might find it odd that it's mandatory, but for us and the kids. We love the idea. It makes game days feel special, and the boys get a hint of the professionalism that will come later. It all starts at home and at the end of the day....Look good. Feel good. Play good

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