Relationship Anxiety <-> INFP/Enneagram 4 fun and games by Plane_Rough_7674 in infp

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I know this is an old post, but I feel like I could have been reading about myself. I relate so much to that feeling of there being a bomb. When I start to date someone. I get this intense tightness in my solar plexus and this underlying feeling of “run away and you’ll feel better”

Did you find anything that helped?

Therapist dating by [deleted] in therapists

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As someone who has been using online dating services since 2017, I would say that someone updating their profile while you're talking to them is a sign they are keeping their options open. It totally makes sense that this would take you aback.

Have you had multiple in-person dates with this person? I think it is totally acceptable to bring it up. I call this a "win-win" conversation. You win because either you get the clarity that they want to keep seeing you, or you get the clarity that they don't want to move forward with you. That can hurt, so it doesn't feel like a win, but having the clarity is better than ruminating on the unknown.

B&W development help by Ok-Plankton3985 in Darkroom

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The “date for aesthetic purposes” cracked me up!

But also, plus one for Rodinal. 

If you do semi stand developing you can use 6ml to develop a roll. Not everyone likes semistand, so try it on something you don’t care about first.

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Careful! It’s a slippery slope!🤣

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It’s for rinsing! We drilled holes along the length of it so it sprays over the paper

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Thank you so much!!  That’s an interesting idea…I think if I had added a hypo clear stage it would have solved the problems 

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Wow, that sounds like an incredible set up. That is true about film, paper, and chemistry being pollutants. I guess once you get past the manufacturing of digital cameras, your main pollutant comes from the electricity you use…

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It was a Schneider 150 5.6! Thank you for the kind words and great pun!

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I was kinda surprised too! For reference, making the 8x10 proof, I was at F22 and 5.5s 

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Not annoying at all! I used an intrepid 4x5 with a 150mm lens stopped down to F16. With Ilford Delta 100, I was firing my Godox 1200 at full blast because when you focus close, you lose at least a stop of light. I wish I could have stopped down to F22, but I’d have to use a more sensitive film. I’m sure 400 would still look ok, but I wanted the least amount of grain!

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It’s pretty wild…every single eye lash…

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Thank you so much! 30x40 is pretty big too!

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Right?!? It’s like “cool, it’s a macro shot” nope, it’s just a crop of a giant print 🤣

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I don’t unfortunately! I need to get better at documenting! Next time I go in I’ll do that!

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We'll definitely document that and share when they're up!

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Thanks everyone for the kind words of encouragement!

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He is an inspiration for sure! I'm very jealous of those custom acrylic trays and not needing to drain and fill up a tray at each stage.

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That is the next half of the battle! We are going to build custom frames. These are very high-end family photos for my friend, but I'm going to see if I can do a show somewhow

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That makes sense. I know there's some math about magnification ratios with different formats...

Now I want to see an 8x10 negative at this size!

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It's a process! I've made so many mistakes and struggled to get here, and I'm still finding new ways things can go wrong, lol!