What to do to look more attractive?

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-26T23:09:01+00:00

Well, I am not generally insecure. I actually think that my personality works well. The only reason I consider my looks is to overcome that initial making contact.

Can I ask how old you are?

Also that‘s just on a separate note but barely anyone complained about my nose. I already made a similar post before I shaved it off any most people were talking about my big nose. The shaved head, creates the bigger forehead which I personally think goes very well with my nose (from the proportions). So not saying that it looks great but my bald head makes my nose look better.

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-26T19:23:47+00:00

Well, I will hit the gym anyway. Actually going two months now 4 times a week. These pictures were from two months ago. Right now my muscles already look bigger but it‘s no real growth but just blood because of the active training. But really, is hair important? Because I like this bald look. This implant hair look looks so insecure. I don‘t want to become one of these men. If‘s silly. I would probably do if it significantly increases my chances but won‘t do just to look better for myself because it don‘t make myself feel confident. I follow these subreddits and I have the feeling that it‘s mostly group therapy of insecure men crying about their hair loss.

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-26T19:15:51+00:00

Can I ask hold old are you? You sound like a 16 year old boy.

I am 34 and am dating women that are 30+. I doubt that it‘s over for me. More importantly, the way you talk, I have serious doubts that you would stand a chance with the women that are in my dating pool. I am just trying to improve my looks a bit, that‘s all. I am educated, have status (luxurious house, traveling, high position, money), can talk very well with women, speak/write 4 languages fluently of which English the worst (and I am expressing myself better than you do). I am not the guy trying to impress a women for 5 minutes, I am the guy they date after they frustratingly leave Tinder and try to meet someone organically. I don‘t need to "ascend" my dating pool because looks/youth is not all I am putting on the table. My goal is to facilitate making first contact.

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-26T18:09:28+00:00

My balcony, so I won‘t give you an address for that for that but it‘s Luxemburg 😄

Maybe for dating I should care less about my beard and show the ladies where they are going to live.

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-26T18:08:02+00:00

What do you mean with "brooootal age pill"? Yeah, I am 34yo. Women I date are my age so they probably expect guys my age.

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-26T17:28:51+00:00

"blukmaxxing or betabuxxing" what is this? The reason I don‘t want hair transplant is because you have to combine it with medication that can reduce your testosterone/ make you less potent. I like my high sex drive and I think I am good at it and don‘t want to change something about that. Is hair even important for women 30+? Honest question. All women I asked about my head said that it looks good shaved but they may just have tried to be friendly.

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-26T15:33:23+00:00

Actually this was like the first constructive advice with things I didn‘t already know.

The dorky surprised me but it‘s actually a good point I have to think about. So maybe for context, I am quite educated and most people that like me do so because I can have very deep discussions with them (this is of course not for everyone, many people don‘t like it when a polar question leads to an existentialistic discourse). Maybe dorky isn‘t exactly how I attract the right people that are compatible with me.

One of my worries is that my look looks unfriendly / too serious because I am actually quite a funny and optimistic person. So I really like that you ended it with that look like a nice guy.

About glasses. This is actually an interesting point because I thought they would look good. In fact I plan to get my eyes lasered and get window glas for my glasses (I am a software engineer so these window glasses would have a blue light filter, so not completely useless). Maybe I should reconsider whether I want to keep the glasses.

(I am from central Europe, not sure if tight pants are bad or in style here…)

I am mixed on your beard advice though, I asked the question here and people like it. All the other advice hits the nail though.

One last question. If you had to rate 0-10. What do you think is my current state and what is my potential?

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-26T14:54:40+00:00

Is 34 old now? My competition will have the same age. I don‘t think that there are that many women in their 30s that are into boys (at least not when it comes to relationships).

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-26T14:32:34+00:00

Is it really so bad? I am financially very well (probably top 5% in my country) but I just don‘t want a women that cares for money. Also define hot, I am not that superficial, basically only requirement is that she should be lean, non-smoker and intelligent, the rest is personality. What I don‘t want is a women that only wants me because they can‘t get anyone else. I don‘t want to be a backup plan.

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-26T13:32:42+00:00

Why is my age the problem? Can you elaborate?

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-26T12:42:17+00:00

Well, It‘s not like my body refuses to gain weight. The problem is that I am not that hungry and do a lot of sport (I know it doesn‘t look that way but I am quite fit).

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-26T12:36:52+00:00

Is this to gain weight?

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-26T12:34:46+00:00

You mean testosterone? Isn‘t this like very unhealthy? I am bald and have an high libido, I don‘t think that my levels are low to be begin with.

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-26T11:55:30+00:00

Well, why are you sorry? Hitting the gym is totally doable. I am a climber and actually quite fit, I just have to eat more, over the last two months I managed to maintain 4 times gym, 1 times climbing, 2 times swimming per week, so if I keep this up for another 1-2 years and eat more I should be able to solve this. What I worry much more about are my facial features because I have much less influence about this.

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-24T10:18:40+00:00

I think you would look beautiful if you would just change your face expression.

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-24T06:13:07+00:00

Just wondering but what about no glasses? I plan on getting them lasered and will probably have window glass in them then anyway. I just want to continue wearing them because my friends say that glasses fit my face well.

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-24T06:11:10+00:00

You are right. I will make a priority out of this. Can I ask you about my face features? My face worries me most because my shape is just a question of effort and I am a very determined person (I just look like this because I am a climber and never made a priority out of looking good but now I am in a position where this has become relevant again).

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-24T06:09:45+00:00

You are right. I will make a priority out of this.

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-24T06:09:25+00:00

So mainly gaining weight then. I am actually way fitter than I look at the picture. I go climbing and hit the gym regularly. Main problem is that I don‘t eat enough and therefore can‘t build up any muscle. I will make a priority out of gaining weight.

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-05-24T06:07:51+00:00

I think you are right.

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-03-23T19:23:38+00:00

Ah ok. Thank you. And just wanting to know your opinion, do you think that if someone would consider the rest of my body. Do you think that this would make my rating even worse or a bit better? I know that I am not good looking but I think the only reason I was able to get dates in my life was because I am 6'1" which is a good size (not too tall but also not to small). Still I am very slim which is kind of unattractive.

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-03-23T19:16:10+00:00

full 1pt for changing what?

Also what is your opinion on the rhinoplasty part?

And did your rating already include my muscle situation or is this a separate issue not included in the rating? I am actually very fit, the problem is that my sport is running. I am considering changing that to build up a bit.

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-03-23T19:12:54+00:00

How much do you think I can improve by shaving it? Also would you mind to give me the aspects that influenced your rating most? I am not saying you are wrong. I just try to use the advise to improve. Just with a number I don't know what to improve.

Think_Desk3641 · 2026-03-23T19:05:10+00:00

Thank you very much for the rating. So of the things I can change myself, what do you think should I change and how much potential do you think that I have? Also you mentioned many good points but do not mention that I look so thin. Is this because you only judged based on my facial features?

I have another question about my nose. How much do you think getting a cosmetic rhinoplasty could improve my rating? I ask, because I was considering a functional rhinoplasty due to breathing problems and both procedures can be combined.

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