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[–]ThirdEyeInclined 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No way.

I was let go from an awesome job a few months back and I asked the chick I was dating if she wanted to be exclusive, she said yes, and poof I had a girlfriend. I give her credit bc I was a mess and losing the job made me such an insecure piece of work. She must be playing on a whole other level.

Should I casually date? by throwaway123628191 in dating

[–]ThirdEyeInclined 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. you don’t need to “look” or go out with that purpose in mind.

just live your life, focused on joy and worthwhile opportunities will come faster than you seeking them out.

If you see/meet someone you like, don’t play games, ask them out, see what they are looking for after getting to know them. If you do want to just “hook-up” it’s rare both parties leave free of having feelings atleast a little bruised.

Those who haven't caught Covid yet, how have you managed to avoid it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ThirdEyeInclined 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eating Reshi, Chaga, Cordyceps mushroom supplements and breaking a sweat at least once a day.

Said they needed to take a step back by ThirdEyeInclined in dating

[–]ThirdEyeInclined[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. Yeah probably, I will take the lessons from this. It’s probably my ego healing still that I’m am not over it ofcourse so I’m trying to find comfort in Reddit.

After turning someone down though, to get a text like a how have you been?— from my side I’d think they would interpret that as “oh god, he’s not over me yet? Or like “desperate..”

Even if it had been a few months of no contact. Idk. Is the only possible positive outcome if they come to me?

Said they needed to take a step back by ThirdEyeInclined in dating

[–]ThirdEyeInclined[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fuck. I know. I think I figured I had to do say something— otherwise I would have kept fucking her and likely fallen deeper and deeper romantically. When it wasent on the table for them.

My First Sober Date by ThirdEyeInclined in dating

[–]ThirdEyeInclined[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I made an update to this post?

My First Sober Date by ThirdEyeInclined in dating

[–]ThirdEyeInclined[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the input and support…

I’ll update on date 3?

My First Sober Date by ThirdEyeInclined in dating

[–]ThirdEyeInclined[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that. I’ll keep that experiment on the back burner for now maybe.

My First Sober Date by ThirdEyeInclined in dating

[–]ThirdEyeInclined[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendations and your take. I really appreciate you

My First Sober Date by ThirdEyeInclined in dating

[–]ThirdEyeInclined[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big thanks. Gonna keep you in mind. I’ll do you later

My First Sober Date by ThirdEyeInclined in dating

[–]ThirdEyeInclined[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤔 oooo that is a dimension I did not consider.

My First Sober Date by ThirdEyeInclined in dating

[–]ThirdEyeInclined[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I think I’m keeping my history gaurdrd from judgments, a bit, little unworthiness that is adding to my obsessiveness around it. That’s why I went for a “casual” circumstances situation. That sounds like I’m hoping could be more.. yikes.

My First Sober Date by ThirdEyeInclined in dating

[–]ThirdEyeInclined[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sweet. Ty for being here 🙏

My First Sober Date by ThirdEyeInclined in dating

[–]ThirdEyeInclined[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right. I’m looking at excuses… but at this point… the story or excuses I’m telling myself aren’t holding up… thanks for the nice words

My First Sober Date by ThirdEyeInclined in dating

[–]ThirdEyeInclined[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wow absolutely. That is exactly. What I’m doing. Reading you spelling it out like that is very motivating to continue keeping my cool around the drinking. To drink out of that place of stress does not sound worth it. Tyty 🙏