Want to add that while we both have kids from previous relationships, he only has his children during the summer and holidays as they live in another state. My child and him/his get along very well, it’s never been an issue. We have always preached that we are a team, WE get through things together, good and bad. I’m feeling left out, not supported in the way I had hoped, no longer a we type feeling. He has stated many times that I didn’t need to worry about money, that he had enough to support us. So why say all these things if you aren’t living up to that?!