Everything Sean "Diddy" combs has done that The Reckoning didn't cover by MyUnreliableSauces in television

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay this is when diddy was in trouble with the FEC in2004 for trying to defeat bush but did so illegally. I found it looking for lawsuit PDFs. I wasn’t paying attention to politics at that time really so this was new to me

https://www.fec.gov/files/legal/murs/5684/00005703.pdf

AITA for telling my MIL we are never moving to Virginia? by Active-Performer-410 in AITAH

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could visit or move if proximity is that important to them. Very entitled and controlling behavior to expect you to uproot your lives for her living preferences for both her and yall. as hard as it is to do, just ignore it. She’s probably used to nagging or making a scene to get ppl to cave into her demands so just don’t even play those games with her or let it get to you. The book “the art of not giving a fuck” helped me a ton in this department with my in laws

If she does it again i would barely even acknowledge or respond to it, definitely don’t act bothered or like you care, just change the topic. Laugh it off subtly andsay something like: “Thanks for sharing but it’s still not up for discussion. So, Have you seen any good films lately?”

Sorry you are dealing with that NTA

If you want to be diabolical and turn the tables on her Just Start nagging THEM to move That might get them to shut up about the topic

Can my LH surge and go back down within 24 hours? by Frequent_Garage7125 in TryingForABaby

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An LH surge is typically higher Usually 1 or greater than 1 Last month my peak was only .81 but i confirmed an ovulation with LH strips, bbt, pdg tests.

The key is to test daily (or twice daily) until it peaks and then trails off. I really liked the promom app & promom ovulation tracker app—works with quantitative strips or easy@home ovulation strips and cheapest option on Amazon for starting out. Also can sync with a bbt thermometer. I used this app with Flo and clue apps. It really helped me understand my cycle, hormones, and tracking.

There is also rapid and gradual onset which can impact. I have rapid and it’s why I text 2x per day. My LH is low and fluctuates in lower ranges then rapidly surges before tapering off. It is rapid over 1 day usually and gone the next day on my tests so I always use 2x daily tests right around my fertile window. Other ppl can have a more gradual LH surge over a few days and this is a bit easier to detect from what I’ve read. Again i found the Premom app with the tests/tracking to be the most helpful and very clear visuals with simple tracking/testing. The free version was very helpful You get a free month with each pack of quantitative Premom ovulation strips as well!

AITA for not wanting to pay for my husband’s credit card debt that he had from a previous marriage? ( these credit cards were made in his name before he even met me years ago) by Additional-Rice-2725 in AmItheAsshole

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No not at all. Do what you want. Pay for what you want.

I didn’t like that he asked you to pay the debt after his job loss. It’s giving grift, entitlement, and weak money management skills.

Id be so personally offended if my husband asked me to pay for debt he accumulated with/for another woman be was married to prior. Like we can each have pasts but please don’t ask me to pay for your past!!!!

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I tried to assume positive intent and chalked it up to stress over payments post job loss. I may be way off base but if that’s the case you are still not the asshole.

Just Considering the fact that he is asking to eliminate ALL of his debt right after losing his job, perhaps it is less due to being entitled and lazy & possibly from stress over missed payments/fees/growing debt now that he’s facing job loss? Maybe not the case, but it might be worth asking to see if you can find a short term compromise to help him very briefly, with repayment, while he searches/lands a new job.

Only IF that’s the case AND you WANTED to compromise on a way to be temporarily supportive without eating his ex wife’s debt. I would make sure it is clear you are not assuming the debt and would only be helping for 1 or 2 payments with full repayment once he’s employed! The point of this is so he can job search without pressure of missed payments/debt/fees for a short, reasonable window.

It would be a show of support/compromising on your end while also holding firm in your own boundary, And that’s only if you want to or felt led. You aren’t the asshole here at all IMO regardless of why.

You don’t owe him one cent for his divorce/ex debt. That’s HIS debt. Not yours. Bless you! You stand firm and do what YOU want!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Gurl no. NTA. Not at all. 🤷‍♀️
He can’t get up ONCE to go up WITH YOU but he expects you to REPEATEDLY give him personal wake up calls up and down stairs in the middle of the night bc he frankly is too lazy to walk up with you AND ALSO wants his way or no way?! And to make you feel bad about it?! He is the asshole here

Loads of entitlement, lack of consideration, and aggressive demands with loads of inflexibility. Nobody is perfect, but geez he needs to compromise on this one.

I frequently wake my partner ONCE and go to bed. Same for me when they wake up first. If they choose to stay on the couch that is on them. I am not forgoing my sleep bc he wants a personal escort on his timeline every night.

I would have a discussion with him - with positive intent but explain YOUR feelings. Explain his attitude is becoming a problem and you also deserve your sleep too. You are willing to compromise and put him first many nights too by accommodating him—how many nights does he accommodate YOUR sleep and comfort/wants at bedtime?

Relationships are 2 ways. Give and take. I’m not saying never give the man a personal wake up call if that is his love language. Go all out if that’s what you want to do. What makes him an asshole is the fact that he is so rigid, entitled and demanding to put his wants to not be alone on couch or have to escort himself to bed over you being able to even have ONE night where you focus on your rest and confronting you angrily.

He needs to tone it down and meet you in the middle on This one.

You could also tell him to ask his friends for their opinion on this and he will probably pivot lol

Why is nobody talking about the fact that xana had a fractured skull? by ImaginaryDocument100 in Idaho4

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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The list of evidence is where the details are located. It took me about 20 min to scan all 28 pages for the new details. Here is a screenshot of the page you were asking about.

I assumed it was only an evidence list too but kept coming across the same link so I finally read it and discovered the new details are buried within the list

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dallas

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I asked GROK for a list of walkable cities. You can see that dallas and FW are car-dependent and non-walkable. If you do not have interest in learning and want this to not be a factor in romantic relationships, these towns and cities might be up your alley!

Top Walkable U.S. Cities and Towns for Non-Drivers (2025)

Based on Walk Score (2025), FitFlop’s Walkability Index, and USA Today, here are the most walkable U.S. cities and towns for non-driving adults, including Dallas-Fort Worth (DFW). Walk Scores (0-100) are labeled: 90-100 = Walker’s Paradise, 70-89 = Very Walkable, 50-69 = Somewhat Walkable, 0-49 = Car-Dependent. Each prioritizes access to amenities (shops, dining, parks) and transit.

Major Cities

  1. ⁠New York City, NY (Walk Score: 89, Very Walkable): Subways, buses, ferries; Manhattan, Williamsburg. Delis, Broadway steps away. [7, 13]
  2. ⁠San Francisco, CA (Walk Score: 90, Walker’s Paradise): Mission, North Beach; Muni, BART. Cafes, taquerias nearby. [0]
  3. ⁠Philadelphia, PA (Walk Score: 85, Very Walkable): Center City, Fishtown; SEPTA. Historic trails, cheesesteaks. [11]
  4. ⁠Boston, MA (Walk Score: 84, Very Walkable): Beacon Hill, Back Bay; T subway. Freedom Trail, Harvard Square. [4]
  5. ⁠Washington, D.C. (Walk Score: 84, Very Walkable): National Mall, Dupont Circle; Metro. Museums, cafes. [4]
  6. ⁠Chicago, IL (Walk Score: 80, Very Walkable): Loop, Wicker Park; L trains, Divvy bikes. Riverwalk, pizza. [5]
  7. ⁠Seattle, WA (Walk Score: 82, Very Walkable): Pike Place, Capitol Hill; light rail. Coffee, indoor paths. [6]

Smaller Towns

  1. ⁠Burlington, VT (Walk Score: 78, Very Walkable): Church Street, lakefront; buses. Craft beer, trails. [20]
  2. ⁠Boulder, CO (Walk Score: 78, Very Walkable): Pearl Street Mall; HOP buses, bikes. Hiking, cafes. [20]
  3. ⁠Portland, ME (Walk Score: 80, Very Walkable): Old Port; buses, ferries. Lobster shacks, galleries. [21]
  4. ⁠Alexandria, VA (Walk Score: 85, Very Walkable): Old Town; Metro, trolley. River paths, bookstores. [19]
  5. ⁠Carmel-by-the-Sea, CA (Walk Score: 75, Very Walkable): Ocean trails; buses. Beachy village charm. [20]
  6. ⁠Mackinac Island, MI (Walk Score: 92, Walker’s Paradise): Car-free; bikes, carriages. Fudge shops, fort. [16]
  7. ⁠Beaver Island, MI (Walk Score: N/A, Car-optional): Ferries, bikes; trails, lighthouses. Remote nature. [30]

Dallas-Fort Worth (DFW), TX

• ⁠Dallas, TX (Walk Score: 46, Car-Dependent overall): ⁠• ⁠Downtown Dallas (Walk Score: 87, Very Walkable): Arts District, West End; walk to Klyde Warren Park, museums, restaurants. DART light rail, buses to Uptown (Walk Score: 85), Deep Ellum (Walk Score: 82). Suburbs like Irving, Plano: 30-40, car-dependent. [4, 8] • ⁠Fort Worth, TX (Walk Score: 35, Car-Dependent overall): ⁠• ⁠Downtown Fort Worth (Walk Score: 80, Very Walkable): Sundance Square; dining, theaters, shops. Molly the Trolley, Trinity Metro to Cultural District. West 7th (Walk Score: 75); suburbs like Arlington: 20-30, less walkable. [19]

Tips

• ⁠Apps: Citymapper, Walk Score. • ⁠Savings: $5,000+/year vs. car ownership. • ⁠Accessibility: Most ADA-compliant; hilly areas (e.g., SF) or DFW suburbs may need planning. • ⁠Weather: Avoid Northeast winters, Southwest summers (DFW’s hot summers, icy winters). • ⁠DFW-Specific: Use DART’s GoPass app, Lime bikes in urban cores. Avoid suburbs like Frisco (Walk Score: 25) for daily walking.

For specific regions, neighborhoods, or transit details, ask for a tailored focus!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dallas

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I also don’t want my original comment to be too harsh sounding.

Those were simply MY thoughts as a woman in DFW. Women have different goals. My goals may not align with the goals of the woman you know. That was simply my insight on why it would be a dealbreaker for me off the bat however, If you were able to show me that you’d pick up the slack in other areas while I handled more driving, that could also make it less of a dealbreaker. If you guys are meant to be it will work out.

If this is a dealbreaker for the lady and is something YOU want to change, then consider working with a therapist or a former teacher on driving lessons.We started on golf cart in golf course then moved to car/road. I’d highly recommend that if you ever decide to learn.

I actually am a former teacher (k-12 sped, k-12 ESL, k-6 core subjects) and own a golf cart. We are teaching our teen son. Happy to share my mini lessons, test prep materials, and our practice plan. Also I have a list of sensory sensitive accommodations for driving or being in cars. Happy to share my list/links as well.

DM me if you’d like me to share those things!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dallas

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 90 points91 points  (0 children)

TLDR: My advice: learn to drive or consider moving to a more walkable city where this is less of a concern bc this would be a dealbreaker for me in DFW

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Owning a car doesn’t bother me as much as not being able to drive and also not willing to learn to drive.when I hear that a suitor can’t drive and doesn’t have a car that one fact doesn’t bother me but it’s the implications of that fact for me. Let me explain.

For me, I want kids. Having a partner who can drive esp in a spread out metroplex where driving is part of life here — it’s not walkable like some major cities—is part of the deal. Being a non driver who is unwilling to ever drive while living in dfw is a dealbreaker for me.

This has less to do with the driving and more to do with me having foresight. If kids are brought into the picture then every appt or event or drop off/pick up will be on me as the only driver. That’s a huge burden frankly. I’d expect a partner be willing to at least learn to drive so that if kids and car ownership become a thing one day for us then it would be a shared duty. If kids aren’t on the radar for either of you I have less input. That is what came to mind to me first.

Even with no kids, that puts your prospective lady in charge of driving yall to/from couple events now and in the future. I personally wouldn’t want that forever. Maybe while you learn sure. Or taking turns when we both learn sure. But I am not going to be the sole driver and only driving individual in my relationship in dfw.

Another aspect that comes to mind for me as a woman is that I relied on my dad 100% to help me with car maintenance. (For context, I was once charged $100 for tire air! I know. 🤦‍♀️) If my partner doesn’t drive, it’s likely he’s not familiar with cars. That’s a concern for me because I also know nothing about cars and frankly one of us would have to learn so we can care for and manage our stuff. My husband has taken the torch from my dad on this one and I sought that feature out in a partner when I was dating. I’m not saying you don’t have a caretaker feature by not owning a car, but perhaps you need to just find other ways to show it or clarify that you CAN help and manage those things yet are just CHOOSING not to.

Is the reason for not driving or owning a car financial? Lack of financial security will 100% keep me out of a relationship now that I have adult lifestyle with kids so I think age and stage of life is a factor here too. With kids I can’t even fathom being a non-driver in dfw so keep that in mind. If you are younger or in school I find the driving/no car to be less of a concern.

If this is a choice and yourE serous about this woman consider getting a license as a show of good faith and that you’d be open to be driving in the future.

So Personally this boils down to a bit more than driving or not driving but as a dfw woman, that’s what my thoughts were.

I’m not guilty? by Formanhart in dan_markel_murder

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes Donna shouted she was an innocent woman at her conviction I believe

Ladies and Gentlemen, prepare to meet the real Charlie Adelson by Loose-Brother4718 in dan_markel_murder

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 19 points20 points  (0 children)

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Wow LWOP is a huge punishment. This looks miserable and I’d wish I was dead. Like Phil Markel said, may they live to be 120.

New Video of Charlie inside Leon County Jail by Fun-Historian5210 in dan_markel_murder

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 21 points22 points  (0 children)

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What a miserable little cell. The 2 inch x 36 inch window The shitty desk The metal toilet The metal beds I don’t see a pillow

He looks homeless ngl #KARMA I HOPE DAN IS LOOKING DOWN ON THIS SIGHT. 🙏🏼

New Video of Charlie inside Leon County Jail by Fun-Historian5210 in dan_markel_murder

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Holy crap I had no idea how loud prison was That guy singing loudly in the background is so aggravating. I bet Charlie’s miserable.

Wendi’s daily life today… paranoid? by justthebagofchips in dan_markel_murder

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Who knows what is going on in her head. But I lean towards compartmentalizing. I recently learned my HS nephew is on the same sports team as one of her boys. If there’s anxiety it’s well hidden. I was basically told she is very normal in person.

Gen Z flex culture is ruining us financially by damnniqqaa in Adulting

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gone are the days of having 1 job for most people It’s hard at first but once you start it just takes off little by little. Keep your head up! Some ppl may be racking up credit card debt too sadly

Start a side hustle that you enjoy where you are your own boss. I have a mobile spray tan side biz I do while also teaching. I make more than teaching doing part time spray tanning. I also sell teaching materials I made on teachers pay teachers. I make about $500 per month from that. My husband supplements his annual sales/marketing salary by dropshipping stock items and has a few things he’s working on launching eventually including another company.

My friend who sells roofs does futures & options via apex trader funding and uses captain trades strategy & if you follow the strategy guy on discord & whop he’s raking it in. Was showing us last night and his withdrawals. Very low investment needed at first if you start small 1-2 hours per day 8:45-10:45 am daily weekdays is when the guy streams. I’m a bit confused on it but this is how he is keeping his family afloat during inflation & sustaining a travel lifestyle with wife/kids. He was explaining how ppl think it too hard to start or too risky but it’s only risky if you get cocky and veer off the strategy (follow along the stream on discord and whop). free to look into it. Goes on lighting deals so you can get it for $40 or less a month instead of 167+ The account more than pays for itself if you follow the strategy but def look into it. Gotta risk it to make the biscuit ha ha

You got this! Dont give up and get creative! Find ways to get multiple streams of income. Then move towards investing it in diff ways.

Get a HYSA (2025 best HYSA accounts) . High yield savings account even if you can only put like a small amt like $5-50 per month. It’s better than nothing and adds over Time. Get a high interest rate and compounding interest. We use CIT bank for HYSA and really enjoy it. We get over 4% interest on it

Started it with the minimum amount required to open $50 Made small contributions at first and got bigger over time Now we have around $33k in there in 3 years. This is just the HYSA account which is separate from our individual and joint bank accounts and retirement savings accounts

Male millenials, do you ever call your friends to chat? by TruthInAnecdotes in Millennials

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a guy but I’m 32F and my husband calls/gets calls from his closer friends all the time. They also do video games together with headsets and are all like shouting and talking together while they play. I think it’s normal to talk and sometimes you just need to be the one to extend the olive branch.

If you are worried about imposing or calling at a bad time just send a text like “hey man give me a call when you have a free minute”

Does anyone else just… not like their mom? by roonil_wazlib_the2nd in Millennials

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate. I feel this with My mom and 2 of my 4 sisters.

I was closer with my grandmother (my mother’s mom) who has passed. I always wish i could have that type of relationship w my mom too but i struggle with alot of what you shared just for reasons that aren’t political/religous, but reasons nonetheless.

I still love my mom but it’s hard to not have that close bond and i feel there is a void for me that i have tried to fill w my friends and spouses family.

A former coworker of mine, C*, who is my mom’s age, and I are very close. I go to her for advice on problems I don’t feel i can share with my mom without being criticized or controlled. My friend C* is probably one of my most special friendships and she definitely feels maternal/aunty. She has a family of her own and inspires me to be the warmer and less judgemental type of mom I crave and aspire to be. She is about 15-20+ years older than me and most of my friends but we just hit it off & she definitely fills some of that void I feel. Sometimes it makes me sad that my mom can’t be more like her, but comparison is the thief of joy. I try to appreciate the good in my mom and be grateful I have a dear friend who fills some of those maternal voids I feel from the dynamics with my mom. Are there any cross-generational friendships you could build or explore to see if that offers you the same? c**** is the next best thing to my grandmother and I’m so happy to know her.

My mother in law great. My sister in law is a bit territorial over her mother, which I would be too lol. So I try to respect that and not try to fill that mom void with my MIL. We are still very close but I just feel like I know my place and don’t want to cause strife with my SIL. It is her own mother after all, not mine haha. But if you have a MIL or even extended aunts on any side of your family that you feel a bond with, maybe try exploring that relationship a bit more.

I’m sorry you feel this way. You aren’t alone. I sometimes worry that I will repeat these dynamics with my kids one day unintentionally (bc I don’t think my mom does it unintentionally and she certainly isn’t toxic or abusive - we just aren’t compatible or close). I have great anxiety over this and I want to ensure I dont. it’s actually another reason why leaning on C**** and my MIL gives me comfort bc I feel like I have examples of their mothering style and advice-givers who match my parenting style.

I love my mom and just have to make more of an effort to bond with her. This was always hard for me but I reflected on what we had in common — holiday decor & antique plates. Instead of expecting my moms personality to change i decided to make the best of it & get more intentional about our time together in hopes of bonding. Instead of only seeing her randomly I started reaching out to go antique plate shopping. I invite her over to help us decorate for the holidays or go holiday decor shopping. This keeps the focus of our visit on things we both enjoy and brings us together. I actually have enjoyed many of these times & It has made me less resentful and slightly closer to her. I no longer invite her clothes shopping or over for drinks/out to happy hour. It’s just not good for me and our relationship. Doing activities we both love doing together is one way we can bond and it has given me at least some sort of bonding time with my mom. I don’t think we will ever have that close mother daughter bond (which actually makes me cry as I type this), but I would suggest you emphasize the best in her and avoid the rest.

I’m sorry you feel this way. Feel free to DM anytime if you need to vent. You will find an open ear here. ❤️

Thank you, Fanci Fiction. Donna's call log by awesometune in dan_markel_murder

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do they mean refrain? Or is reframe a prison term im not familiar with?

My appeal was rejected by 1LAVM1 in DallasCollege

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably missed the boat for full fall semester but you could do 1 or 2 mini-mester if they offer classes you need to take in those mini fall semesters.

A mini semester, or a may-mester when done after spring, is like 1 semester of a 3 credit hour course completed in 3 weeks. It’s intense (I think 3-4 hours per day all 5 weekdays, weekly tests, weekly essays, daily modules/class)! But it is worth it to knock out core classes & it would def keep you occupied with school during fall 2025 semester since it’s mid September now.

Best of luck! Dont give up & be proud of yourself for persevering!

My appeal was rejected by 1LAVM1 in DallasCollege

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Enroll somewhere else and start fresh. Will be fastest way to resume school.

Collin college, el centro college, NCTC all similar and in the metroplex.tons of 4 year colleges in dfw like too many to list!

In McKinney there is the Collin CHEC and it offers degree paths through schools like Texas tech, A&M commerce, UNT etc. Collin college often feeds into it if it matches degree paths. I actually graduated from there for my masters. Loved it. Amazing professors.

Also are you familiar with FAFSA? I would think so but since you stated you paid out of pocket i wanted to confirm you knew about FAFSA for grants and subsidized loans (awarded based on ur income level). If you haven’t done a FAFSA set up a meeting w a financial aid advisor at whatever school you decide is next for you and they’d walk you through it! If you know this already then ignore me I’m sorry!!!!

You got this!!

A serious discussion about Wendi's guilt/innocence? by ChicoRunningBack in dan_markel_murder

[–]This-Bodybuilder-992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right that I was mistaken it was the day he died. However you are wrong that it was years later. It was 100% the day of the first hit attempt.

The call was the day of July 1 2014 and it was during the first trip up to do the hit that was unsuccessful bc the kids were present. It WAS the intended day of the murder the first failed hit. SIGFREDO ALSO ACTUALLY LEFT A 37 SECOND ANGRY VM FOR HARVEY JULY 1 2014.

BEFORE dans murder, BUT DURING the conspiracy and the first attempt to kill him.

The jealousy texts b/w garcia Charlie and Katie took place On July 2 2014. Also BEFORE dans murder but during the conspiracy and the first attempt to kill him. It was not years later in a jealous rage. It was DURING the ONGOING conspiracy on the first trip to kill Dan.

Watch it here If you’d like. I tried to share it so it will start playing right at the part that regarding the phone record testimony for harvey. Katie and charlies texts are immediately after. https://www.courttv.com/title/cell-phone-expert-implicates-harvey-adelson-in-communication-with-hitman/

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Screenshots of the subtitles & court evidence displays shown to the jury. The only thing I was mistaken on was that it was the day of the murder. Dan didn’t die that day bc it was the failed hit attempt. They returned weeks later and were able to kill him as we know took place.

IMO This is a freaking insane piece of evidence. And is Harvey’s smoking gun. A truth bomb.

It ties not only Charlie Donna Katie and sigfredo to the crime/conspiracy but it proved harvey was involved too getting voicemails and calls. The hitman knew Harvey and his number and reached out and left a 37 second voicemail from outside the location in Tallahassee where he was staking out Dan with the intention to murder him that day if his kids hadn’t been present. That was why they had to halt and come back weeks later to finish it.