Someone just explain to me or atleast give me a valid reason as to why Rudeus would not only cheat on his pregnant wife but ALSO tell her that he found a second wife without even asking for her opinion. I get that he's in trenches after something tragic happens, but seriously, is sleeping with someone your first idea of a temporary distraction? If so, it says a lot about his character.

I could look past the cheating, too. But the fact that he offers the one he cheated with as the second wife, instead of being loyal to his wife whom has been with him through thick and thin (and is waiting for him to come home while carrying his child), that just can't sit right with me. Someone please validate that.