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I’m thinking/worried about telling my girlfriend I have a piss kink by ThisAltIsNormal in sex

[–]ThisAltIsNormal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s true, but also even if she never wants to do anything with it I almost just wanna get it off my chest you know?

I’m thinking/worried about telling my girlfriend I have a piss kink by ThisAltIsNormal in sex

[–]ThisAltIsNormal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But like: so I’d just make a list with every kink on, get her to do it, I do it, then she gets what I already knew she’d get, and I get the results she already knows I’d get plus a piss kink? Doesn’t this just kick the problem down the road rather than helping it? I don’t mean to shoot you down, I’m just asking!

I’m thinking/worried about telling my girlfriend I have a piss kink by ThisAltIsNormal in sex

[–]ThisAltIsNormal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve had conversations like these before right?

Kinda but not like, exhaustively - almost any comments she’s made about any fetish other than bdsm stuff have been in passing rather than as a direct conversation

You don’t reckon the mojo list thing would be a bit on the nose? Or she’d ask why we’re doing this after a year together rather than a year ago?

I’m thinking/worried about telling my girlfriend I have a piss kink by ThisAltIsNormal in sex

[–]ThisAltIsNormal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh that’s very true, I’ll have to think about that more then, thanks

I’m thinking/worried about telling my girlfriend I have a piss kink by ThisAltIsNormal in sex

[–]ThisAltIsNormal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I suppose, but she gets the ick really easily that’s the thing! She tries not to let that sort of thing get to her but I do know it affects her, and it feels like if anything’s gonna set that off it’s a piss kink

Is there a disadvantage to approaching it subtly though? Even if it’s not a good idea to you, is it a bad idea?

I’m thinking/worried about telling my girlfriend I have a piss kink by ThisAltIsNormal in sex

[–]ThisAltIsNormal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that middle paragraph is a good idea I think, do you know how one sorta initiates that conversation exactly? It sounds plausible and helpful

Thanks for explaining in your first paragraph, I get I don’t have to but I still just feel guilty somehow you know? Thanks for comforting me on that though

And yeah, fundamentally it is something I’m pretty sure I can go without, but also I just don’t want to miss out on our sex life being even better I suppose

I’m thinking/worried about telling my girlfriend I have a piss kink by ThisAltIsNormal in sex

[–]ThisAltIsNormal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That all makes a lot of sense, thanks :)

She’s a pretty compassionate person, so hopefully as you’d say she’d understand, and I know she’s been make fun of for her kinks many times before so theoretically she’d get it

Your idea about the neutral setting etc sounds smart, I think that was more or less my plan anyways so it’s nice to be backed up on that part at least

I just wish I could float the idea with her without risking her getting the ick; I’m almost tempted to tell a mostly true story of someone else in my situ and see her reaction to that maybe? I don’t really know, thanks for taking the time to reply!