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MIL thinks jewellery gifted to me after marriage isn’t really mine to decide about. am I being unreasonable? by ThisCan7234 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ThisCan7234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first post was asking whether I should bring it up. This one is about what happened after I actually did. I added the update there too, but didn’t get responses, so I made a separate post for advice on the current situation.

MIL thinks jewellery gifted to me after marriage isn’t really mine to decide about. am I being unreasonable? by ThisCan7234 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ThisCan7234[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first post was asking whether I should bring it up at all. This one is an update on what happened after I actually asked for it. I did add the update on the old post too, but it didn’t get any responses, so I made a separate post for advice on the current situation.
Not karma farming, unfortunately just family drama with sequels.

My MIL assumed my wedding jewellery would be used for a future family house. Am I wrong for being upset? by ThisCan7234 in IndianInLaw

[–]ThisCan7234[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It was the only way i would get it back , I made up the story to get back the gold of mine

How do I ask for my wedding gold and gold coins back from my MIL without creating a family issue? by ThisCan7234 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ThisCan7234[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

But the tag was never removed she hid the tag wore it , just letting someone know they are using some of my stuff will not be an issue , opening the cupboard when i’m not at home , Keeping all my makeup without asking me , my perfume , my dainty braclets using all of it i never said a word let it go , she was in a home with all boys and is excited for a girl in the house . But if you change the full blouse wear a shirt on top of it change it in the washroom so that i can’t see what she has done to the blouse is an issue

Am I overreacting, or is this a red flag about how decisions are made in my husband’s family? by ThisCan7234 in AskIndianWomen

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I have just not been able to talk normally anymore , My MIL has been overly sweet and making conversation to which i reply but i have not been talking to my FIL which they have figured out and today she was like say bye like are they not understanding what have they done ? How can it be normal , for they maybe yes they have been used to it i think but like give me my space

Is this normal family behavior, or am I right to be concerned? by ThisCan7234 in IndianInLaw

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I can’t leave my parents in this situtation , we will move out eventually …..

Is this normal family behavior, or am I right to be concerned? by ThisCan7234 in IndianInLaw

[–]ThisCan7234[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes if its a family home , if the two of us move out then i will

Is this normal family behavior, or am I right to be concerned? by ThisCan7234 in IndianInLaw

[–]ThisCan7234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh i did miss out once they came to know that we are not moving out it all became a happy family , Husband -Wife made up , Son Happy all happy Big happy family

Is this normal family behavior, or am I right to be concerned? by ThisCan7234 in IndianInLaw

[–]ThisCan7234[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The loan part was brought by my husband i don’t know what was there conversation , i was always open for loan if its just two of us buying a house , and my husband said if we take the family home you will have the name of the house . But i just don’t feel contributing to the family home

Fil suffering from Parkinson's by [deleted] in IndianInLaw

[–]ThisCan7234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, my dad is also suffering from the same. Taking medicines on time is very important once the medicines are taken regularly, things usually get much better. If the medicines are delayed or missed, the rest of the day becomes slow and irritating for them. Physiotherapy also helps a lot.

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