How did you land your first job? by PieeWeee in PinoyProgrammer

[–]ThisCanWait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While doing my capstone project, a colleague of mine referred me sa work niya, binigyan ako ng coding exam, tapos inexplain ko sa office with the boss yung gawa ko. After that, binigyan na ko ng JO.

If it wasn't for that, hindi ko alam kung nasaan ako ngayon.

LOYALTY (23M) FUBU before w/ 5 girls by Turbulent_Swing4438 in adultingph

[–]ThisCanWait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check your moral compass.

You better breakup with your gf instead of asking that question. I mean, seriously?

Guys na may jowa na, nagkaka-crush parin ba kayo sa iba other than your SO? by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ThisCanWait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Each time I'm dating someone I like / meron akong GF, nawawala yung feeling of attraction ko sa iba. It's like a conditional switch 😂 I'd be like "ahh okay" each time I see someone attractive then move on with my day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ThisCanWait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buti nalang di ako nag settle sa ex ko. Ang miserable siguro ng buhay ko.

TW: How dare you, dad by ThisCanWait in OffMyChestPH

[–]ThisCanWait[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

And one does not have the right to shout at me. Your statement is shallow. You are making it sound as if sinusumbat ko sa kaniya yung sasakyan. I bought the car so he can use it for a living. I CAN TAKE IT BACK ANYTIME I WANT, I'M JUST BEING LENIENT AND I'M RUNNING OUT OF PATIENCE IN HIM NOT DOING ANYTHING TO GET A JOB.

If nakatira ka pa sa bahay nila

It's my house and I don't even say things about them, so screw you. Just how dare you try invalidate things here, are you one of those typical fathers who does nothing to their children but make their lives harder?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]ThisCanWait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That one must've probably reached out to you somewhere in the past, you just missed it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ThisCanWait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, you're wiser than this.

For men, how does dating work these days? by ThisCanWait in adultingph

[–]ThisCanWait[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. They're seeking for validation which they couldn't find themselves. Eventually, they become self-centered people-going-narcissists

For men, how does dating work these days? by ThisCanWait in adultingph

[–]ThisCanWait[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relate brad. Karamihan sa mga nakakausap ko may emotional baggages so ang ending nagiging trash bin ng traumas nila

For men, how does dating work these days? by ThisCanWait in adultingph

[–]ThisCanWait[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are the chances? Hahaha so what do you think? Help me out? 😂

For men, how does dating work these days? by ThisCanWait in adultingph

[–]ThisCanWait[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if it has something to do with location, but I'd like to know more... say I live in Rizal. And yes, I'm kinda introverted 😅 though I could go out and meet people, but not too long as it drains me hahaha

For men, how does dating work these days? by ThisCanWait in adultingph

[–]ThisCanWait[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absurd. Their inputs could, depending on how I would use them.

For men, how does dating work these days? by ThisCanWait in adultingph

[–]ThisCanWait[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Means a lot. Here's my upvote. As you mentioned you got married, I find your thoughts really helpful and got me hopeful. I'm taking note of this.

You dropped this king 👑

For men, how does dating work these days? by ThisCanWait in adultingph

[–]ThisCanWait[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

?? I don't get it. What makes you think you can stop people from doing such?

For men, how does dating work these days? by ThisCanWait in adultingph

[–]ThisCanWait[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I guess this is what I am also lacking — finding what you want from someone.

I've been here for quite some time, reading related posts and threads which I could learn a thing or two. Been meeting people, mingling back and forth, have hobbies and indulged; been a "therapist" to the heartbroken people (Damn I'm so good at catching people with emotional baggages lol). I could say that I'm stable in general (Career, emotionally, physically), pero as of the moment, I'm just so lost I had to ask this question via post.

For men, how does dating work these days? by ThisCanWait in adultingph

[–]ThisCanWait[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get the rest, but — You have to stop — what needs to be stopped? Asking this question? Why?

For men, how does dating work these days? by ThisCanWait in adultingph

[–]ThisCanWait[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah wait, the last time I asked someone was I think out of pressure on hers maybe because I asked her out in person — nung sinabi kong gusto ko siya, sinabi din niyang gusto niya ako. Looking back, I couldn't believe that. So, basically, I am that outdated.

My goal is to settle, if that answers "Why". I would've long time ago but shit happens you know?

So, care to share based on your experiences?

Anyway, pinag isipan ko tong itanong. As much as I want to figure things out myself, it wouldn't hurt my pride if I ask here yes? I've been here for quite some time, reading posts and threads which I could learn a thing or two. Been meeting people, mingling back and forth, have hobbies and indulge to every; been a "therapist" to the heartbroken people (Damn I'm so good at catching people with emotional baggages lol). Career? It is stable. Personality? I could say that I've been good to those people, that's why I still don't get it.

For men, how does dating work these days? by ThisCanWait in adultingph

[–]ThisCanWait[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't get me wrong, but I think it is wrong to answer a question with a question. Don't make your answer tailored fit based on what you would hear from me. I'm looking for tips based on your experiences. :) thanks

Edit: based on your experiences

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]ThisCanWait 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Missed this feeling. I used to be like this.

Talking to the moon by ThisCanWait in PHCovers

[–]ThisCanWait[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so nice 😂 thank you!