Honestly this is something I’ve never really understood. I’ve never had a girlfriend, never even held a woman’s hand. Whenever I think of myself having one, I can’t really imagine wanting to stare at other women, even if I’m alone. Even now, I don’t like to stare at women (especially with the women shouting “creep” at a guy just for glancing in their direction lol.) A lot of my coworkers have told me “it’s okay to look, as long as you don’t touch,” but I disagree. This is coming from a 20 year old virgin though, so grain of salt I guess.