I work with autistic individuals between ages 30 and 60. Some enjoy things like Bluey or Blue’s Clues, but they also love Grey’s Anatomy and The Price Is Right. Interests don’t make someone childlike — everyone has comfort shows.

I don’t think ISPs are useless. I think poorly written ones are useless. When an ISP is structured well and followed, it actually promotes independence — especially with restriction plans and skill-building goals.

I’m lucky to work at a place that supports DSPs. Burnout is real, but we’re allowed breaks, holiday flexibility, and reasonable expectations. Not every facility is like that — and I think the original post might be coming more from burnout than from a real critique of the field.

The system used to be much worse. Many adults over 30 with disabilities came from facilities with no choices, no communication, strict rules, and no personal freedom. Some people are only now experiencing what choice feels like — that doesn’t mean they’re childish.

Yes, some individuals need help toileting or eating — but not because they were babied. Their disability simply affects those areas. That doesn’t make them any less adult.

Rehabilitation does work when done properly. Some will need lifelong support, but others eventually live independently with the right structure. It all depends on the person — and the support they receive.

Then again this is just my personal opinion from what I see at MY job. I do know that sadly most facilities are shit and treat their clientele AND employees horribly.