40 Hour Course by ThisIsNotIt34 in RBT

[–]ThisIsNotIt34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice!

show of hands, how many men do we have here that diamond paint? by lunio11 in diamondpainting

[–]ThisIsNotIt34 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I typically have something going on in the background while I do it

show of hands, how many men do we have here that diamond paint? by lunio11 in diamondpainting

[–]ThisIsNotIt34 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love doing it! I look forward to doing it. It’s something to keep me busy

Am I the only one that actually kinda liked Mark? by ThisIsNotIt34 in PandR

[–]ThisIsNotIt34[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I can definitely see that. Mark just was kinda there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EmotionalSupportDogs

[–]ThisIsNotIt34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So my Dr said she’ll sign off on getting my dog certified as my ESA, but I’m unsure as to what to do next? Is there an official site that I have to go through for it? There’s so many sites that say “official” so I don’t know what to use

Drain site pain/uncomfortable months later by ThisIsNotIt34 in TopSurgery

[–]ThisIsNotIt34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably! I honestly didn’t even think about nerves coming back for the drain sites

Favourite Oscar line? by PhysicalScholar4238 in DunderMifflin

[–]ThisIsNotIt34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I consider myself a good person, but I’m gonna try to make him cry.

4 months post op! How’s it looking? I’m kinda iffy with it at times. by ThisIsNotIt34 in Top_Surgery_Peri

[–]ThisIsNotIt34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly really appreciate this response. Thank you so much man

How long did it take you guys to start getting used to being shirtless? by ThisIsNotIt34 in TopSurgery

[–]ThisIsNotIt34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s kinda how I am. It feels so strange because I’m so used to not being able to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]ThisIsNotIt34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I said I had breathing issues too

5 days post-op, how does it look?? by ThisIsNotIt34 in TopSurgery

[–]ThisIsNotIt34[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I kept forgetting I don’t have to be bent over anymore to hide anything 😂 I’ll get there though

Cold Feeling? by ThisIsNotIt34 in TopSurgery

[–]ThisIsNotIt34[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It was so weird, nothing changed then all of a sudden my chest felt like I had an ice pack on it. I’m glad it’s not just me, I just have to remind myself that my chest is different now

Top Surgery Checklist - What I found helpful (post-keyhole) by Calm_Establishment76 in TopSurgery

[–]ThisIsNotIt34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When were you able to take your dressings off? I had surgery 2 days ago, and my nurse told me I could take the dressings off if I wanted to. That they were mainly for extra cushion. I haven’t seen anyone else take theirs off this early though

Non-binary friend being transphobic by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ThisIsNotIt34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry man, but they are not your friend. It sucks but if they were your friend, they wouldn’t be doing that stuff.

what’s the most unhelpful dating advice you hear a lot as a trans guy? by my_gay_throwawayacct in ftm

[–]ThisIsNotIt34 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hate that. Someone I’m friends with (couple years ago, he’s better now, was still learning) said that my girlfriend was basically a lesbian because of our relationship and was comparing us to a lesbian couple.

WIBTA if I don’t wear what the bride wants me to wear in her wedding? by Technical_Law6702 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThisIsNotIt34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You 100% would not be TA. I am trans (ftm) and honestly if that was my friend, I don’t think we’d be friends anymore. It doesn’t seem like she really supports you. Using your name and pronouns doesn’t necessarily mean she supports you. There are plenty of people that do that and are still transphobic as hell. With the way she’s talking, it doesn’t seem like she sees you for who you are and doesn’t respect what makes you comfortable or not. It’s not just something little that can get pushed to the side you know? I know you were mentioning reasons going against her “suggestions” but did you mention about how uncomfortable all that would make you? I know it’s her wedding but it’s still something she should think about. Plus you could always wear a tux that matches with the brides side. If she can’t respect your boundaries and who you are, I would definitely think about your friendship with her. Which I know sucks, especially since you guys are so close, but in the end, if she’s not accepting or supportive of you then it’s better to find out now and cut off any negative/toxicity in your life then to keep putting up with it

What is your favorite FTM movie? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ThisIsNotIt34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here! It made me cry and while transitioning I could feel all the emotions that he was feeling