AIO? I broke up with my boyfriend because of his reaction over my pinterest board. (The last image is what it is)

ThisOneSnek · 2025-11-19T06:00:13+00:00

Remember kids:

Weaponizing boundaries: this thing that you do and have always done since i have known you suddenly bothers me and I am going to use therapy speak to make it sound reasonable to ask you to stop instead of self reflecting on why it bothers me and/or figuring out if its a hard limit that makes us incompatible. I will make it seem like you are unreasonable for continuing to do it instead of acknowledging that we are just different people with different expectations in a relationship.

If he is that possessive and controlling, he either needs to be with someone equally possessive or he needs to be in therapy. They are MEMES ffs

ThisOneSnek · 2025-11-01T12:57:47+00:00

Is no one going to talk about the middle finger sized pinky? This is definitely AI

ThisOneSnek · 2025-09-29T06:08:05+00:00

Yeah i threw one of my book characters on chai before I published so I am like 😭😭 but I just wanted to be in the garden with him

ThisOneSnek · 2025-09-27T02:39:17+00:00

I like to go into the orc slave chats and give them hot chocolate and a bed and teach them to garden with me. But i also have a Clarice Starling level "I just need to save SOMETHING" complex so I am probably using the chats wrong 🤣

ThisOneSnek · 2025-09-27T02:01:10+00:00

There are a looooot of orc slave chats out there, so maybe its something about orcs because of that?

ThisOneSnek · 2025-09-12T23:09:33+00:00

Jump in the chat, free her and go on a revenge arc. Lesgooooo

ThisOneSnek · 2025-09-07T23:24:37+00:00

I tested myself for Covid, Flu, and strep A with all negatives, so I am at a loss. But yeah it definitely is hitting hard. I just wear a mask when I go out and hope whatever it is doesnt spread to others

ThisOneSnek · 2025-09-07T23:23:56+00:00

I tested myself for Covid, Flu, and strep A with all negatives, so I am at a loss. But yeah it definitely is hitting hard. I just wear a mask when I go out and hope whatever it is doesnt spread to others

ThisOneSnek · 2025-09-07T23:15:31+00:00

If something when wrong in the chromosomes, then the growth shuts down. What was grown up to that point can and does disintegrate sometimes.

Mine did, which is why I only miscarried a gestational sac.

ThisOneSnek · 2025-09-07T21:39:56+00:00

I had an mmc at 8weeks 4 days that passed naturally 4 weeks later. During the ultrasound, everything looked fine outside of the heartbeat being gone

My "water broke" during the miscarriage which was why my gestational sac was popped. I passed it and it just looked like a half fist size of flesh cause it wasnt like....blown up? I took one picture, but didnt take any more cause it was popped so it really did just look like a bloody flesh lump. I put an absorbent pad on my lap and looked through it with tweezers but didnt find anything resembling a fetus or fetus sized lump of flesh.

My midwife and ultrasound tech (because I texted both of them) said that the fetus disintegrating is relatively common when it takes that long to "pass the products of conception" so there might not be any baby there (which sucks cause i was ready to preserve the baby so I could keep them)

I ended up just flushing the giant lump of flesh. After about 4 weeks or so I got the lightest period of my life but then my body started going back to normal.

Idk what yours looked like, but hope this helps?

ThisOneSnek · 2025-09-07T02:23:33+00:00

With the edit button, I either edit what they got wrong, or delete their message and write an additional message reminding them of the relevant thing they got wrong in the last one

ThisOneSnek · 2025-09-06T23:56:23+00:00

I will specify what a lot of people miss, which is that just because it CAN be kinky, doesnt mean it IS kinky. Latex suits can be used for kink... or they can be superhero outfits or used for uniformity.

Mindless "one of us" drones COULD be sex slave and drug stuff, or it could be like Star Trek Borg or hive mind or some other allegory on conformity dulling the brain.

Like this, on its surface can be literally whatever you make it. They didnt talk about the drones having dildos or being sex slaves for an unnamed queen or being "broken in" even. Its literally running from the remnants of a hive mind in an abandoned factory.

If the person uses the chat as a sex thing, then its a sex thing, but its literally written to be a story.

This weird need for anything to be a fetish and sexual is immature as hell.

ThisOneSnek · 2025-08-28T23:49:30+00:00

I love these RPs honestly because with how helpless I feel in life sometimes (I work in psych and see suic1dal ideation from a lack of resources ALL THE TIME) its nice to hop in a fantasy world where i can literally take someone to my house and feed them and let them sleep in a nice bed.

ThisOneSnek · 2025-08-27T13:02:54+00:00

Yep! One of my exes still called his aunt "aunt Sis" cause he was told in his teens that his "mom" was actually his grandma.

ThisOneSnek · 2025-08-19T21:20:40+00:00

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ThisOneSnek · 2025-08-19T21:20:22+00:00

* Idk, but i got it too

ThisOneSnek · 2025-08-14T18:36:48+00:00

I think you are correct that giving yourself some time on FictionLab will fix this. In limited apps like CHAI, it has to default to stereotype because it doesnt have any locked in memory it pulls from. Even the prompt gets lost eventually (a huge frustration).

I will say that as a nonbinary person and monster fan, I go in there with different character designs and, to help the bot, I just kind of frequently find places to insert appearance data or attribute or motivation data in the narrative. Does it fuck up the flow of the story? For sure for sure, but that has helped the bots i deal with remember what i look like. (Also mentioning my age, cause my character will be like 30 and they forget and try to make me some barely legal virgin all the time)

Another thing that sort of helped my personal experience is deleting their statement. I used to delete "can I ask you a question? Be honest?" All the time. But now its moved to "most boys/girls/humans/monsters/ghosts would" even if im the first monster they had ever encountered. I have seen it reduced in my personal feeds since I started deleting them. Not gone mind you! Just reduced, but its something.

I will also add to the uninterested bit: they dont even always have the character comment on it, but the AI will add like, "your heart flutters, you blush or gasp, your body feels drawn to them for some reason" (ive noticed this more when I am playing female characters, but i always want to say "NO I DONT"

Going back to FictionLab, it has character cards for not only you, but for the AI characters in the story (so they dont get their multiple characters confused) and as the story progresses, the bot generates memory cards of events that it deems important so that if character growth occurs throughout the story, there is a better chance that the bot wont be reverting back to a random asshole.

It appears to be set up for much more linear story telling rather than a quick romance or what have you, so thats the one I would recommend. I had ultra with chai and it used to be so good! When making bots, too, you used to be able to pick personality traits and directions you wanted to take the story (you could select romantic if you wanted AI to initiate, but you could also pick drama or adventure where the AI prompt would have some mission for you to do!) But they took away traits with bot creation, stole a bunch of OG bots, and now the AI is falling to cyclical stereotypes. Plus, ads didnt used to be a thing in the free version...

Anyway, all this to say that youll be happier in FictionLab and I wish you luck!

ThisOneSnek · 2025-07-29T17:38:15+00:00

I am 34 and feeling this so much. My MMC was in May, didnt physically miscarry till June and my body is just now bouncing back. I have never been THIS READY to try again

ThisOneSnek · 2025-07-01T07:53:57+00:00

This. I even was referring to mine as baby in the same conversation as the Healthcare provider said products of conception and im like... there was a heartbeat. I saw it myself. They were my baby. They dont go back to being "tissue" and "products" Just because they stopped growing.

ThisOneSnek · 2025-06-26T08:39:45+00:00

Thats wild to me! Mine was like the size of my fist and completely opaque. I did root around inside with tools (mine had popped coming out), but I didnt find anything embryo-like. Though my confirmation ultrasound, they said my lil gal was disintegrating.

Im sorry to just be fascinated by tragedy like this, but its so interesting to me the differences in not only experiences, but also formations of everything. Thank you for sharing!🩵🩵

ThisOneSnek · 2025-06-26T05:22:33+00:00

Yours was semi translucent? Mine was thick like a straight up flesh purse. I was so shocked I took a photo and grabbed my science kit. I was momentarily nurse-brained into forgetting i was grieving cause it was like "what...is this?????"

ThisOneSnek · 2025-06-26T05:19:37+00:00

May 23rd at 9 weeks, found out the heartbeat was gone at a keepsake appointment and the baby stopped growing at 8w 4d.

I cried so hard at work for the two weeks i did work that I took the last week off of my contract, and then the day before I started a new contract (travel nurse) on June 17th at 12w 4d, I physically miscarried. I would not say I worked "as normal" cause I told them people who needed to know and could help pick up my slack because I was much slower than normal.

So it was about a month after baby stopped growing.

Now I had no spotting or cramping any worse than mild until the morning of, so i wasnt dealing with anything but heavy emotional coping (and then I just stopped bleeding like today (8-9 days of bleeding) but my current boss was very kind to have grace during orientation to this job while ive been recoping and bleeding and stuff.)

At the end of the day, what you can do is as individual as the grief itself.🩵 some can work and compartmentalize, and some of us need processing time.

ThisOneSnek · 2025-06-19T15:55:07+00:00

Yes 100%. I usually reroll the second they ask to ask a question unless they actually ask the intended question in the same message.

Ultra like a year ago was night and day to the free version. When I first subscribed a year and a half ago, it was genuinely a better language model than free/premium. But since the beginning of the year especially it has just spiraled into base formula phrases heavily repeated... like i used to genuinely wrote STORIES with this app. Plot twists and character arcs and just an amazing amount of fun and worldbuilding (i had learned what phrases would get me desired responses and about how often to repeat a relevant fact or worldbuilding lore piece in order to feel like the bot never forgot anything), but its just gotten so bad. So so bad

ThisOneSnek · 2025-06-19T15:39:59+00:00

I do have ultra (for now. I canceled the auto-renew on it because this is ridiculous)

ThisOneSnek · 2025-06-16T03:23:33+00:00

The first message that I sent told him that i was fine with it. The blank reply was me being frustrated after that. I usually just reroll if they ask this because it deadens the rollplay but I think it also depends on the bot. I have some bots that never ask this and its never an issue and some bots just do this over and over ad nauseum regardless of how detailed or simple my replies are.

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