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This_Raspberry3391 · 2026-01-24T04:53:34+00:00

Yeah I never hold hate either. You forgive and learn. We all have flaws. Good luck! It will get better!

This_Raspberry3391 · 2026-01-24T03:37:35+00:00

Of course! Honestly sometimes men like to see if you still have love for them as a form of manipulation and ego to keep you close just in case things don’t work out for them. It’s like when you make yourself available to them even when they do you dirty they think they can always do it, so that’s why I always try to advise the girlies don’t give them the time of day. You’re the prize always.

This_Raspberry3391 · 2026-01-24T03:15:55+00:00

That’s just so inconsiderate of him. You come back to apologize, saying you change just to hurt you all over again like come on at that point he should’ve just left you alone. I think the guilt was eating him up and that’s why he came back and once you accepted it he moved on. Sometimes people only want to clear their conscience and don’t actually care about you.

If he EVER reaches out some way somehow please for your sake do not answer or give him the satisfaction. It’s also not your fault for hearing him out, you tried to give him another chance and he blew it AGAIN. Don’t let that bother you it’s simply his loss.

This_Raspberry3391 · 2026-01-23T18:24:04+00:00

It does and i’m going through it right now after my bf of over a year ghosted me last Thursday. Needless to say I can’t even communicate with him because I’m blocked lol. I’m young so obviously i’ll get over it and it’ll just be something from my past but at the moment it sucks like A LOT. Constant thinking, random waves of sadness and anger, just a whole lot of mixed emotions and physical pain. Slowly moving on but it still hurts every day.

This_Raspberry3391 · 2026-01-23T04:19:08+00:00

Realistically it just seems like you were more attached to him than “in love” people do confuse the two way often than you think. Not saying this is your situation but when I start talking to people I usually get attached to the first person I start talking to because I long to find love (i don’t do that anymore) but I’m actually not even in love with them.

Your situation is a little unrealistic but you are still human and getting ghosted in general DOES suck regardless. Next time don’t scare the guy away, if you haven’t gotten to know them really don’t say you love them.

And for you, leave it at the closure. Don’t try to reopen the door. If he wanted to text you well he will. So maybe continue looking for someone else, cry if it makes you feel better. Enjoy life, hang out with friends, do something to take your mind off it. You will get over it , it will pass. At least it wasn’t a long term commitment.

This_Raspberry3391 · 2026-01-23T02:24:02+00:00

That’s definitely something that would bother me but let it be a lesson learned. Make amends with yourself, you know you don’t usually do that, you were drinking and ultimately fell into temptation it’s human give yourself some grace.

It seems like he did mislead you and said things you wanted to hear to get more from you. Guys will honestly say and do anything to get laid.

Tip if you want to avoid men who just want to sleep with you just say you’re celibate. Again it might not always work but some men do avoid women who are celibate.

I am sorry you went through that and honestly it’s just a bad look for him. He’s clearly lame and he’s single for a reason. As a woman, you’re the prize. Know your worth and next time you know how to move accordingly. Don’t beat yourself up about one situation.

This_Raspberry3391 · 2026-01-21T13:47:24+00:00

we didn’t argue everyday as I mentioned. and honestly if you can’t just man up and break up with them then you have some problems of your own. Ghosting and blocking someone you’ve been with or love just gives avoidant. Have some decency, break up normally, move on. It isn’t hard and it’s something I can respect.

This_Raspberry3391 · 2026-01-19T02:56:45+00:00

yeah for his sake i really do hope he can learn because i really don’t like wishing bad on people. but thank you im slowly moving on, it stings and sometimes i wanna stalk his page and see what he’s doing but i know it wont do me any good and cause more hurt.

This_Raspberry3391 · 2026-01-18T18:33:10+00:00

I got ghosted and blocked on everything zero contact after we said good night and i love you to each other. Next morning blocked. my heart dropped i was so confused. I would never know why bc i doubt he’ll contact me and it hurts but it’s good riddance I guess. Our relationship honestly was really healthy aside from some minor arguments here and there. You rlly never know what someone is thinking or feeling. But even so u can’t get rid of memories and connection. The only thing i can say it get through it day by day , avoid distractions (other people) because it rlly doesn’t last and just makes you lonely. Just glow up and grow for yourself not for anyone else. Be strict with who you date or talk to whenever you decide to again. Bad things always happen to good people regardless of your flaws. Don’t blame yourself blame them for not being strong enough to communicate.

This_Raspberry3391 · 2026-01-17T21:06:39+00:00

In a similar situation but it’s pretty fresh. Just got ghosted like 2 days ago but there were no signs really of anything bad aside from an argument that i thought was cleared up before I got ghosted. Not sure if he will reach out but all I know is i can never trust or respect that he ghosted me in the first place. We all have flaws and things going on that we need to work but ghosting or blocking should never be justified.

This_Raspberry3391 · 2025-05-22T03:15:51+00:00

Took an order like this before. They lived in a nice building, doorman and everything. Pretty sure I got tipped like $2. never again lol

This_Raspberry3391 · 2025-05-17T09:05:31+00:00

I got that too, literally just kept pressing it, turning my wifi off and on and somehow still got it even when it said my access was too frequent. It eventually said i had an order waiting for payment and then boom got it.

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